A fantasy kept coming back during sex and it was to have a clit ring, which I thought was pretty daring, until I learned there were many, many forms of female genital piercings out there. To me it is all about pussy pride, female empowerment and a celebration of feminity, plus the added sensation of the metal resting on the clitoris.
At A Glance Author Friskylass Contact Friskylass@bme.anon When A week ago Artist Maribel Studio Stargazer Studios Location Toronto After reading much testimonials, I did decide on a triangle, anatomical examination pending, and chose someone in Toronto, which is not the closest to my home but I loved the artist's bio and the fact that she was female and after talking to her, learned that she had done a lot of female genital piercings before. I immediately trusted her during our phone conversation and I was very excited to book my appointment. I had some concerns about having my period on that date but Maribel reassured me that it was okay because I was going to wash in her studio right before anyway.
When the actual weekend came I was psyched, apprehension built up but all in all I was pretty relaxed, after all I had 40 or so hours of childbirth pain under my belt so to speak, or at least that is how I put the coming pain in perspective. Only a few seconds in all, the actual perforation and then installing the ring. How much could it hurt, right?
Maribel made me feel right at home as soon as I walked in, she operates her studio from her home so as we sat in the kitchen and she prepared me some tea, I saw a bottle of Johnny Walker Black, and begged her for a shot. She was reticent at first but let me have just one. I was actually planning to get there early and have a shot or two in the car, but I was late and had to run but I still wanted to take the edge off and it did, very nicely so.
I took a nice shower and then I was ready so we walked in the actual studio, very professional, sterilizer, gloves and all. I refused to look at the clamps or the actual needle, and I am so glad I did... I assumed the position, on my back, knees open, heels touching (I had a dress on to facilitate things), Maribel checked me out and said I was perfect for the triangle so she proceeded with the sterilizing and the piercing. Nothing could have prepared me and I can honestly say this is my first and last piercing. I felt faint so I told Maribel and she's such a pro, she had a flowery mist ready by the table to spray on my face which felt so nice... I knew we were halfway there and she kept me calm, my knees didn't buck, so she put in the ring and that was it! I had a huge sigh of relief and when I felt less dizzy I took a look and was utterly charmed.
After getting up she made more tea and some of her friends had shown up, and she showed them the needle she usually uses and I nearly fell off my chair. Had I seen it before I would have run!!! Again, I am new to piercing, I didn't really register that what was going to be inserted in my fleshy bits was going have such a wide diameter. I am glad it's all done and over with because I will never have the nerve again!
At first I was afraid to pee, and it did sting a little (my jet is a little diffused due to childbirth), and I was even afraid we had hit a nerve, but that's because the ball of the ring was resting directly on my clitoris, giving me the same sensation I get right after orgasm and I get too sensitive to be touched. All I had to do was to turn the ring a little and that was okay. I bled and walked funny for three days, and now the stinging is almost gone. Maribel gave me a bottle of aftercare soak solution from her own line, which was part of her fee, and it's very soothing. She took the time to explain all the aftercare points and even reassured me on two occasions when I called her worrying about the healing process.
Sex is still the last thing on my mind, but it's all good I am between partners and I'll be opened for business in august if all goes well! I'm a little bummed about not being able to ride a horse though but all in all, I'm awfully proud of myself and I love knowing I have a little something extra in my knickers to play with. Thanks, Maribel!