I must admit, that I have always wondered about how genital piercings must be like. I am fascinated by the look of some, plus I am really curious about how it feels. Unfortunately I've never had any experience with a pierced man, so my curiosity has grown considerably over the past 10 years.
At A Glance Author winfish Contact winfish@bme.anon When It just happened Artist Mark Studio Skin Illustrations, Canterbury Location Canterbury, Kent, UK Although I consider myself to be an open minded person, I had great difficulty in admitting to other people what I was planning. After 4 months of reading BME, searching for pictures and learning about the different ways in which female genitalia can be pierced, it was obvious that a triangle would be my #1 choice.
Therefore I went to Canterbury before Christmas to find a female piercer. (Talking about it alone is difficult enough for me - showing my private parts to a complete stranger... NO WAY.) Knowing that only experienced piercers should do that, and being aware of my own sensitivity, it was really difficult for me to decide about it. I couldn't find somebody. I just couldn't, even though I went to London to try. Many people refused to do it, but they all recommended Marcus, so I talked to him about it in the end. It was the most difficult thing for me, but he understood my concerns, and he was 100% professional.
I asked him to tell me exactly what was possible for me or not, as I was also thinking about a VCH. (I like the way the combination looks...) I was a bit taken aback when he explained to me that he wouldn't do it on that day. His reaction made it very difficult for me, as I was mentally prepared for it to be happening on that day. I thought I would back out if he didn't do it right now. I understood him, saying he did not want to be in a hurry, he wanted me to think about it carefully and be sure. On a happier note, he told me that, I could have anything I desired, as far as my anatomy is concerned.
The appointment was fixed for yesterday, 2 p.m. Although I forgot about it again in the first 3 days, my nervousness grew a lot during that week. My body reacted to the stress by starting to bleed, as if he knew what would be happening to him. I was stressed like never before. I couldn't relax, I was so scared, I just couldn't.
Going to Canterbury yesterday was pure torture. Some of my colleagues distracted me on the way there. We went for lunch just before my appointment. (I didn't have any breakfast, I was too scared to eat) It was difficult to force anything down my throat, I couldn't stop thinking about it. On the other hand I was sure, I would pass out if I didn't eat or drink anything before. Being a crazy person, I deliberately chose a pink slip just to create a positive mental attitude for myself. Maybe it was also an association with innocence that made me choose the pink slip...
Mark took a lot of time to explain everything, I signed the papers, he showed me a picture on his PC, I was fine. Fine, but nervous. Going to his room he left me alone, as before when I changed. Sitting on the chair without underwear felt quite uncomfortable, but not as difficult as it felt the first time. Still my nerves were ... not existent any more. It took him a long time to mark me and arrange the clamps. The longer it took, the more nervous I got. In the end I was breathing heavily, just out of fear.
When he pierced, the pain was ... well .., excruciating. There is no other word for it. Of course I jumped, but he was prepared for it, stayed calm and finished the job. WOW that hurt ! - I never knew 3 seconds could be that long. And it didn't stop, every other piercing stops to hurt the second the needle is through, that one didn't. It took almost 30 seconds for the pain to go away (me cursing, Marcus smiling). Fixing the jewellery was the most difficult part for him, as I was so sensitive by then, every time he just touched me I jumped. He was an angel, he stayed calm, relaxed, I was breathing, he was doing his best to explain to me what he needed to do.
As soon as the ring was in and closed the pain was gone. Gone, like it had never been there. His reaction was: " NOW you've got a smile on your face !" - I'll never forget it. He seemed as happy as me. The bleeding stopped 2 minutes afterwards, luckily it didn't bleed as much as I expected it to do. The adrenaline rush came, and I felt great during the next few minutes. He left me alone to dress again, as usual, and I got up. I felt ok. No pain, moving, walking - no pain. I was surprised.
I was in a shock afterwards, I remember paying him, a nice tip of course, as I really gave him a hard time ... (F*** off, Marcus !). I still have no idea how I arrived at the meeting point with my colleagues, I was in shock afterwards. It took me 30 minutes to recover, to forget the pain. - Once the adrenaline overcame the pain memory, I was feeling great. The drive home was ok, I didn't feel any pain, I took a sea salt bath in the evening, no pain either, toilet, no pain, walking, sleeping, jumping - it was fine. As I've got a bit of a cold I am also sneezing a lot. That s something I DEFINITELY feel ! But it feels very pleasant... Now the first night is over, still there is no bleeding and no pain - a bit of itching here and there, nothing else.
I am so glad I did it. It was painful, definitely. But I've never been so happy afterwards. It was a great victory, and I fought hard for it. Right now, I don't feel very much like trying it - the clit is still extremely sensitive. But I can't wait for it to be fully healed to try it. Just with whom, I don't know yet.... :-)