At A Glance Author anonymous Contact anonymous@bme.anon When Six months ago Artist Pat Pruitt Studio Custom Steel Location Albuquerque, NM I have been diabetic many years and now want to father a child. I have to wear bands to hold the erection so the fluid is not able to pass out of the penis and do its job. I saw the BME website and started my investigation after I read about wands in that secion. I figured that this would be cheaper than a 30,ooo dollar in vitra baby and decided to do this on my own. My urologist knew nothing about this excep that when I started I had to get a PA to begin with so he knew I wore one. That was two yers ago when I got the PA.
After the PA healed which is another story: I went to a studio in that turned out to be a not so reputible place. It was cheap and I wanted one right away. So I I paid the guy 40 bucks for the ring and he put it in after soaking it in alcohol! No autoclave here! Dumb! I didnt get HIV and it all healed quickly and I began streching and getting ever bigger rings. I stopped at 6ga and that is the size I wear now.
I kept thinking about a wand but knew they were expensive. I read in BME that you have to streach the size to fit your penis so I used various plastic and metal objects which made me quite sore when I pissed!! No infections came about so I was lucky. I finally figured I needed the real stainless steel thing in there and made a few inquiries as to where I could get one. I emailed a tattoo artist in CA and he recommended Pat Pruitt. I made an inquiry to Pat and he just asked for info what size and what mesurements ie the tip of the penis to the PA hole etc. I told him what I would need mesuring with a ruler. Next thing I know he is working on it and almost done with it! I was going to owe him three hundred bucks! (later based on service and quality worth every penny) I scraped it together and what I actually got was two wands a long and a short. I could wear the short one getting used to this in the sphincter at the tip and the long one for actual use during sex.
The real pain began when I started incerting things up the shaft but because it is a streaching process it takes time to streach and heal over an over again to get the right size. Pat suggested that I would need one that fit snug and the it was not an overnight process to get where you want to be. The sphincter hurt like hell and would not streach and stay streached and incerting things was hell. I finally got a tapered tool to streach it bigger than it needed to be then incerting the correct size easily. All in great pain and I was about to give up.
When my Wands arrived I got a new vent to wear them again and inspite of any pain, I was determined to wear them because I had paid for them. Again nothing but pain in the sphinctor at the tip. I finally determined that (after reading about meatonomys in BME that when you cut on your Dick it never grows back do what you want it wont) I would have to cut that sphincter from the inside.
I bought a long selendor exacto knife swiped it with alcohol and stuck it inside the dick and felt around for the exact spot I wanted opened. I did slow sawing montions it hurt was was tollerable compared to what I had been thru with the streaching program. Blood piled out and I held a towel close and put a ruber band around my dick to stop the bleeding. It stopped in about an hour completely. I expected that and wore paper towels in my shorts for a few days. It healed in a week and I was back sticking my streaching tool and wand back in. This time it went right in no mus no fuss and no pain! The canal for the urine past the sphinctor streaches easily and does not mind the size as much. I began wearing the short one a few hours at a time and found that while standing up it did not hurt at all, but sitting or lying down it hurt like hell. Could not get used to it. So whenever I was gong to be on my feet I put it in. The great advantage now was that when I went to a p ublic restroom I could now take a piss without dripping or pissing all over the place with my PA in place. THANK YOU Pat!!
After I got comfy with my short wand I started incerting the long one, 6 inches. It went right in and FELT GOOD right off. I had a big ball made for the short one and a smaller one for the longer one and the balls are drilled so I dont have to take them off to piss. I think they both look great! I did not want to have to take the ball off and risk losing it or have it drop somewhere in a lavatory and have to go fishing in a toilet for it.
I finally went to my urologist and showed him my two wands and told him what I was planning to do to get a child going. He was agast at the wand and said, YOu shove that up your dick? I said yes and that by getting it past the bands I wear during sex I now get the seemen again! He said well in that case let me give you a rx for an anitibiotic good for as many refills as you need for a year. We dont want any infections in there! I go back in a month or so now and plan to wear the short one to the appointment so he can see the real thing installed. Last time I said that in a few years, I am sure you will be recommending PA and wands for the diabetic that is losing feeling and or wants to have a child. He said that will never happenk!
Hey when word of this gets out they will take another look at an inexpensive way to bring on another child.
I like the way it looks but have to be careful not to let others see a steel ball sticking out of my dick and another underneath. People think you are wierd if you are my age and have a piercing let alone a wand. The two balls on the wand fit snug agains the tip and the penis underneath. That way it is not uncomforatable diring sex. I like the heavy feeling of the steel pulling on my dick while walking regarless of what I m wearing. It ads feeling I have lost to diabetes over the years. I always have a PA or my wand in all the time but the short wand is my favorate. The long one is doing its job too but that is not used except during sex and if you bump something while walking around with that guy in there you can get really hurt.
It has been a painful long road to get where I am now with this wand business. So far I am happy with it but as for the child we shall see what happens. At least now there is the possibility to have a baby whereas before the wand it was out of the question. My wife has been a support thru all this for her sake as well as mine. I do not reccomend self dick surgery I guess I was lucky nothing ser;ious happened. I never told the doc about that lest he have me committed. If we get lucky I will let you know the babys name!!
A few other things Id like to say: Get your PA done professionally. Eventhough the guy who did mine was less than good, It was placed exactly were I wanted it and the pierching was placed right thru the seam on the under side of the dick. It did not blead but a few drops and healed in a day or so. Streaching it was easy too. It only hurts for a second and it feels good to look in the mirror after it is in and see a ring thru your dick. You now have two holes to pee thru!!! That is the part I always hated. I use public urinals and I end up pissing all over the place. Now with the wand that stuff is over with.
Telling the tuth about he surgery, I had to cut that sphincter about three different times to get it right. You have to be familiar with your own dick and know what you want to do and nobody can do it for you because they cant feel what needs to be cut. I also have a implant in my dick done by a doc many years ago. I dont want that sliced or messed up since the fix it bill would be around ten grand to reinstall. Dont ever become a diabetic if you wnat a long sex life! The disease takes away your ability to feel, your feet your hands and including your dick. Geting a PA and this wand has given me new areas for feeling: The inside of the dick as well as the outside.
I probably would never have thought to get a PA or a wand had I not been diabetic. As a diabetic you run the risk of infections and complications to no end. I have been lucky I guess but I have been on the quest for continued and better sex regardless of the consequences. Im not willing to stop having sex and take up golf instead.
The few friends I have that know about this swear I am crazy to cut on my dick and shove a pipe up there and endure all the pain I have. They of course have well funcioning dicks and a happy sex life. My sexlife was fading fast and faced with extinction of my dick life, a PA and a few slices with my exacto knife seem a small price to pay.
When I got the PA I had no idea how much pain and trouble this would be. I think I would have gone ahead with it anyway. I have my nipples pierced and wear rings there too. I went thru hell having done that by myself, It then failed and I took them out then went back to a piercer to have it done correxctly. It was then a snap and had I never gotten them I would not have the pleasure I get with them. I feel the same way about the wand and the PA you gotta have it to know what Im talking about. If I were having good sex already I dont thing that a wand would improve upon it. Other guys get them for thier own reasons and hopefully they work for them. If you have a PA alrady trying out a wand is an expensive proposition especailly if you get it on ok now. The good thing about it is that if you dont like it you can toss it, unlike a tattoo or a PA.
I have had to keep this whole business under wraps for the most part. I dont know anybody with a PA or a wand. I m careful to keep covered at he gym lest anybody find me wierd. I live in a conservative area and wont be moving soon. Only my doc and my wife have seen it an one thinks Im crazy and the other loves it. If I lived in CA I would probably walk around freely in the showers and not give a rats ass what anybody thinks but when you live around here you better not show it or wear a speedo or even look like you might be different. I you have a question you can ask thru BME I have to be Anon with this.