I am a 43 year old white male who has been married 23 years. Have three children a nice home and a comfortable income. Three years ago I came across an article in the local issue of Creative Loafing discussing body piercing. For some reason the article intrigued me and I looked up the local piercing shop the author referred to in the issue. I made an appointment just to talk with the Piercer, a young woman of about 25 years who was a professional nurse at one of the local hospitals. After speaking with her about an hour regarding this "unusual practice" she asked if I would consider a piercing for myself. I told her I was probably to old and set in my ways to have a procedure done on me, but she assured me that straight, mature, professional, white middle class males are pierced everyday. Well after much discussion and assurances I elected to have a PA piercing done the next Monday evening. I didn't know what to say to my wife, how would she react to the new me? So I did not tell her at that time and I decided to surprise her later. She always said I was to predictable and this was my means of proving her wrong.I arrived at the shop that Monday evening not knowing what to expect with butterflies churning in my stomach. Another woman besides my wife was going to handle my penis, what would her reaction be, what would my reaction be? The Piercer sat me down in the piercing area and just talked to me as another human being. This started to relax me, however the matter at hand, so to speak was still at the back of my mind. After I felt reasonably comfortable she asked me to undress and sit in a reclining chair. It was definitely an unusual situation for me to be in, to be semi nude in a recliner with a strange woman preparing to pierce me in a most intimate place. She was still talking and giving assurances that I was not unusual and that I would be surprised to see the make-up of her client base. She asked me to pull back my foreskin, as I am uncircumcised. She then proceeded to swab the area below my glans and urethra opening with a Betadine solution. She the placed a pair of latex gloves on and marked the exit point for the piercing, she offered me several choices in sample rings to choose from after I had made my choice, (a 12 gauge captive bead ring) she pulled a pre sterilized matching ring from her "tool box" and placed it beside the chair on a table holding her needles, forceps and bandages. She produced the sterilization "proof" for the needle and asked if I were ready? I responded that there was no time like the present and she told me to start breathing deeply and slowly. She grasped my penis in her hand and lined the needle tube up as I breathed per her instructions, on a deep exhale she forced the needle through my shaft, it happened so quickly I hardly had time to experience what I thought would be almost unbearable pain. It was more like a sudden intense popping and the needle was through. She lined the jewelry up and placed it through the new piercing as the Needle was pushed through. She then placed the bead in the open loop to complete the circle. She advised me of aftercare and forewarned me that the first time I had to urinate I may feel a stinging as the urine passed over my wounded flesh. I was bandaged with a loose fitting wrap and the rubber glove, given an emergency contact number and sent home.
My wife was out of town at this time for a few days and it gave me a chance to start healing up before she was confronted with the new me. I kept the piercing clean by washing it twice a day. Every time I cleaned it I found myself marveling at the visual effect a ring through "My Penis". After about a week the discharge stopped and I found that even though I was tender the feeling of a foreign object in my flesh was beginning to subside.
My wife's reaction to this has not been positive, she deals in an industry that is dominated by Gay men and expressed that only someone gay would have a piercing like the one I had. I felt that this was untrue and found myself getting more into my piercing with each passing day.
As the months progressed I started stretching my piercing as the healing was over. One day as I was examining a catalog of Body Jewelry I noticed another device that intrigued me. It was then called a urethra tube (later called a Princes Wand) that could be made to order. The thought of having my penis not only pierced but invaded and constantly stretched was to much to resist. I called and had a tube constructed for me immediately. The first tube I wore was 1/4 inch diameter by four inches long with a 6 gauge PA and a 3/8 inch ball and drain plug. This was a great beginning piece. After a three month wearing in period I re-ordered a new tube. This piece was again 1/4 inch diameter but was six inches long with a 4 gauge PA and a 3/8 inch ball and drain plug. Again as time passed I found that I could wear this tube for long periods of time with no discomfort and barley a noticeable feeling that I was being stretched. Then 18 months ago I finally had the ultimate tube constructed and now wear this wand for hours at a time, a constant reminder of my PA and penis being stretched with a constant high being generated from its use. The new tube is tapered in length from a small diameter of 3/8 inch to a diameter of 1/2 inch at the discharge end, the tube is six inches in length and has a PA of 2 gauge with a 1/4 inch ball and 3/4 inch close mount drain plug. Even when I am not wearing this device I can visualize the sensation that it creates when it is in place within my body, believe me it really is a great sensation. I do not feel that I need to continue to increase the size of this tube past its present dimensions as it is all that I would ever ask for in its ability to generate that special high. Some day I would love to have a photo made and published with me wearing the tube and share it with the readers of this article, but I don't know how to go about getting this done without causing embarrassment to me and my family. If you have ideas on how and/or whom can do this for me please advise.
As I have no intent on increasing the size of the wand described above, I started looking for other piercings that might contribute to the high I was experiencing. Again a catalog supplied my inspiration. A "Guiche" was something new I wanted to try. Back to my old standby parlor, this time I felt as if I were an old hand at this and had a 12 gauge ring selected and placed in my quiche piercing. I heal rapidly obviously, and began to stretch this new piercing out almost immediately. Within 3 months I was at an 8 gauge ring, within 3 more I was special ordering a 2 gauge circular barbell with 3/8 inch balls on each end and a massive 1/2 inch ball between the two. Sort of looks like a three grape arrangement. The purpose of this ring was to be as heavy as possible to allow continual stretching and to allow the large 1/2 inch ball to be used as a stretching device as the piercing started to stretch. This is indeed what did transpire over a matter of less than two months. I now have an opening in my first quiche that can accommodate a 00 gauge barbell or ring, although I currently wear a 4 gauge 5/8 inch ring with a 1/2 inch ball in place. Six months ago I started the process again with a new piercing performed by a new piercer, Derrick Crockett, this piercing healed even quicker than the last and I currently am using the same stretching technique as I did in the past.
I don't know where I go from here with a wife who is not supportive of my new found freedom, but we have enough in common that the relationship will not be troubled by this one point of disagreement. However I will say that I enjoy my new found freedom and feel like a sexually liberated man from many old myths It may not be for every body but it sure has been a marvelous experience for me.
The guiche piercings I have were not very painful at all when they were done. In comparison neither of these piercings were as painful as the Prince Albert piercing. The first one I had a 12 Ga. ring with captive bead placed into the piercing. It is a rather deep piercing (a lot of retaining tissue). I kept it at that size until I had completely healed up approximately 6 weeks. After the healing process I found I could easily accommodate a 10 Ga. Ring and substituted a new captive bead ring for my existing 12 Ga. My scrotal skin is fairly elastic and within three weeks I was at a 6 Ga. circular barbell. That's when I contacted the Body Accessories who built all of my custom jewelry for me. I asked them to build a 2 Ga. 5/8 inch inside diameter circular barbell that had 3/8 inch balls on the end with a 1/2 inch ball between them suspended off center below their plain. As stated in my original article it sort of reminds you of a small bunch of grapes. They built this ring within 6 days of my order. That was about 4 weeks after stretching my guiche to a size 6 Ga. Piercing. I eagerly placed the new jewelry in my piercing and was delighted to find that I had stretched enough to accept its size with no discomfort at all. The only discomfort I ever have had with either of my two guiches is when they get twisted and caught between my boxer briefs and thigh as I am sitting. This happens quite often as I am driving so I constantly adjust my seating arrangement. The reasoning behind the 1/2 inch ball was to allow me to stretch the piercing to a 00 gauge without having to purchase an intermediate piece of jewelry. After my experience with the current size I feel that any increase beyond what I have in place would just be to much of a distraction. Even though I can pass the 1/2 inch ball through my piercing with no problem at all this is where I stay.I had been speaking with a local piercer (Derrick Crockett) who was fascinated by the fact that someone beyond generation X was actually into the piercing scene. He asked me if I had thought of continuing with another genital piercing. I told him there were times I had thought about continuing forward on my scrotal sac with another guiche. He asked if he could examine me and see if I could accommodate another piercing as guiches have a tendency to migrate out. After the exam he said that I should be able to handle another if it was placed as deep as my first piercing. He suggested this time I use a 12 Ga. barbell. I took his advice and he performed the piercing for free the only cost was that of the jewelry. This is the only free piercing I have had, he said it was a privilege, I don't know why. The barbell seemed to accelerate the healing and stretching process and within six weeks I was wearing an 8 Ga. captive bead tear drop in the piercing. Three weeks later I purchased an off shelf 4 Ga. captive bead ring with a 1/2 inch bead. After wearing the new 4 Ga. jewelry for about three weeks I swapped positions with the two Ga. Piece to accelerate the stretching of my newest piercing. Again my experience has shown me that I am constantly adjusting these pieces so I don't really feel there is any future chance at me adding any new guiche piercing although I have had thought about going the other direction (toward the rear).
As with any activity there is always some degree of risk. With a little forethought and planning we can eliminate or limit most risk. With the Princes Wand I am very cautious with the way I handle it. First I never force the wand into position. I am aware that there are sphincter muscles near the vas canal that restrict the flow of urine when sexually excited and we certainly do not wish to damage any thing inside the body. Second no one handles the wand, (I have allowed Derrick and another piercer to handle the wand but not without latex gloves) except me. I sanitize the wand with a solution of Hydrogen Peroxide before insertion and after removal during each use. As I am in a pharmaceutical related industry I have access to autoclaves and have sterilized the wand by running it through a sterilization cycle on occasion. I also have boiled the wand in distilled water when I have not been able to sterilize it. This isn't a perfect solution but it does cut down on the chances that a biological agent can survive and grow inside the wand. The only problems I have encountered using the wand have been aligning the PA pin to the PA receptacle through the PA hole and sometimes while tightening the PA pin my tissue will be pinched between the base of the PA pin and the wand itself. I don't use a lubricant on the pin because the pin becomes to slippery to handle and more difficult to tighten.
I purchased my first wand through Silver Anchor in Zephyerhills, FL. (800) 848-7484 it was a 1/4" diameter 4" length with a 4 Ga. PA pin. Cost was I believe around $65 dollars. The first time I inserted the wand I found no discomfort in fact it was quite a pleasurable experience. The only draw back is that I had neglected to specify the length of the drain plug pin and PA pin. The drain plug with ball was about 1" in length when in the wand and the PA pin was about 3/4" inch in length with the ball. Both of these protruded beyond what I thought was aesthetically pleasing.
I have been asked by several persons on the net if I can have an erection with a wand in place and achieve orgasm. The answer is an emphatic "YES". I used the first wand during a session of love making with my wife and she never noticed its presence, or if she did, she never mentioned it which I would find incredible. It was great! I ordered a new wand same diameter with a 6" length within two months. This time I specified the length of the Drain plug and PA, it was more pleasing but still not perfect (I got the dimensions wrong). The order was placed through the custom jewelry maker I have previously spoken about, Body Accessories (BA) great craftsmanship and prices, cost about $105 dollars for the first 6" wand. The name of my contact there is Chris mention my name it may help you out in price. Again I experienced no discomfort with its insertion. I tried the same experiment with my wife and encountered the same results. However with the increase in length I found that my movement was limited. I could only mount her from the rear, my penis would not bend to fit for the missionary position. Not good, so I decided that as a sex toy the new wand was unsuitable. That did not stop me from wearing it as I found that I enjoyed the sensation of having my penis stretched by the inserted wand. With a little patience I found I could extend the wearing of the new wand to a couple of days continuously without removal with no adverse effects.
I decided that increasing the length of the wand was of no benefit whatsoever and thought of increasing the diameter of the wand. I called BA and explained to them what I wanted, this time I had the dimensions down pat. Construction took a little longer as the materials were not standard off the shelf stainless steel tubing. The wand was constructed using medical grade 304 stainless steel 1/2" tubing. An insert for either end was made out of the same materials with the exception that the diameter was 1/4" to fit inside the 1/2" tubing. The insert was welded in place and the tube was then milled to eliminate any traces of the weld and to its final tapered configuration (1/2' to 3/8" taper). A "flat" was milled 1/2" inch from the discharge end (1/2") of the wand to accept a 2 Ga. PA pin. A 3/4" ball was shaved on one side to flush mount to the discharge end of the wand and act as a drain plug. The entire piece was then electropolished and buffed by hand to eliminate any nooks and crannies that might harbor burs or microorganisms. Cost was about $120 dollars. Finally it was ready and shipped to me.
It is a beautiful piece of work and it is a monster at the same time. It is extremely addictive. Sometime I swear I will never wear it again only to turn around on the same day and insert it then wear it for hours at a time. I believe a big part of this maybe knowing that in my business attire, as a professional, sitting in a meeting with corporate leaders, I can wear this with a slight smile on my face and "they" have no idea who the real me is and what I am up to. I have played golf with the wand in place although it played havoc with my concentration I still shot a respectable round (broke 100) for me. I have driven for hours at a time with it in place. Been to social events wearing the wand and done just about any normal activity one could think of. The biggest surprise has been my ability to wear the current wand and pass through airport security checks (gives you a warm feeling about airport security doesn't it)?
There are just two activities I will not try while wearing the wand. Again I would not dream of using this wand as a sex toy with my wife, if the smaller diameter won't work I don't want to even imagine what would happen with the bigger wand. I cannot sleep with the wand inserted as it keeps me awake by its presence and even if I did doze off the first turn onto my stomach would surely wake me as the wand was pulled from one side to the other. I also do not wear the drain plug when the wand is inserted it does become noticeable on occasion and I must be discreet. The wearing of the wand without the drain plug has not proven to be a problem (no leakage or odors). The longest I can wear the wand in a one day period is about 16 hours. After I remove it that night I can reinstall it the next morning after a good nights sleep with no problem. As you should be able to gather I do not wear the wand every day, it is just to damn distracting. Normally I wear a non-intrusive 4 Ga. captive bead ring with a 1/4" ball which I can rotate freely through the PA piercing to maintain the 2 Ga. hole size.
It has been a pleasure to hear from all of you. One of the new things I am interested in is to really find out how many heterosexual men enjoy the genital piercing scene. If you have any ideas on how a survey or chat group could be set up please let me know. This could be helpful in providing me and others like me with ammunition to fight that piercing is strictly a Gay man's activity. In either case if I can be of further support or answer additional questions about my experience don't hesitate to contact me.
In answer to your question about more details of the wand's use in sexual activity. Originally when I had the first wand I could masturbate and make love with the wand in place. All of the wands I have used are hollow tubes so I can ejaculate through the tube with the drain plug removed. (I really don't know the rational behind the plug, it is quite useless unless you were to use it as a part of a BD/SM scene). While making love to my wife I found that she was unaware of the first two wands presence, as they were only 1/4" diameter. The first wand being only 4" long caused no difficulty at all when I mounted her from either the front (missionary) or rear (doggy-style).I have never attempted to insert any of the wands while I am in an erect state. At first I would insert the original wand using a lubricant as K-Y jelly. I soon found that it was not necessary to continue the lubrication step prior to insertion as my urethra was being stretched by the continual exposure to the wand. I found I could wear the original wand for several days at a time and even sleep with the wand in place.
The second wand was the same diameter as the first the main difference was the additional two inch length. It was not a real problem inserting this wand I was patient and did not just ram it home. I allowed the sphincter muscles at the vas canal in my penis to slowly stretch as to accommodate the additional length. This was aided by the use of K-Y again as a lubricant. With time I found that I could again wear the new wand for extended periods. I even could sleep with this one in place. Masturbation was enjoyable with it in place as I could indulge myself in all types of BD/SM fantasies with the wand as an instrument for training and disciplining an unwilling slave.
Sadly the love making aspect with my wife was not as enjoyable, I found the increase in length prohibited me from mounting her from the front without causing pain in my urethra by the position angle of my penis and the constant pressure during sex which was attempting to bend an unyielding shaft. Even from the rear I could comfortably mount her but she received very little pleasure from my lack of mobility as I did not have the freedom of movement allowed with either no wand or the shorter wand. The sum of my movement was a straight in and out, works for me but not for her. It just was proving not to be a sex toy that I would enjoy using with her.
Never the less I did order a larger diameter wand for my enjoyment. The first time I inserted the wand I found that event though my urethra had been stretched I had difficulty with the diameter the whole length of insertion. Again I used the K-Y as a lubricant and with patience I found that I could take the wand after about two weeks of gentle prodding. I still met some resistance during the insertion process but no real pain. Now I can insert the wand without use of the K-Y I still encounter some slight resistance deep inside my penis during insertion but again no pain. Getting an erection with the wand in place is not difficult maintaining the erection is no different from normal. I find that masturbation fantasizing again as the unwilling sex slave has been heightened to a new level. As I had difficulty with the love making with the previous tube I haven't had sex with my wife with the new wand in place due to the past experience with the old wand. I have been involved with an oral sex scene using the wand. I am not sure whether the individual received any pleasure from performing the act on me but I sure received pleasure from their lips.
Again this is a personal experience that I enjoy and don't mind sharing, I would recommend it to any consenting adult.