This whole experience started about a year ago, when I first saw a genital modification. I was very impressed, and very attracted to the idea. Up until that point, I had never heard of anything of the sort. That was when I made up my mind, and decided right away that that was what I wanted. And not just one. A lot of them.
At A Glance Author anonymous Contact anonymous@bme.anon When It just happened Artist Girlfriend Studio Bedroom Location Nova Scotia, Canada When I first proposed the idea to my closest friends, they laughed right in my face, and told me that I would never go through with it, and "chicken out", like i always do. I'm not going lie, I do have quite the history of jumping out of things last minute. And, to make things worse, not only did I have to find a way to block of the discouragement from my best friends, but I had to deal with the problem of finding a piercer in Nova Scotia willing to pierce the pubic area of a (then) 15 year old boy. Not an easy feat.
After about a year of searching for the courage to do it, and after many failed attempts to find a willing artist, I decide that it would be much more special to me if it were to be pierced by someone that I know and love. And who better than my beautiful, experienced piercer, lovely Girlfriend, the only person I knew that believed that I could actually do it. So yesterday morning, after spending the night at her house, we sat down on her bed with a professional 14g needle, a sterile straight barbell, a black pen, and we got ready to carry out my Pubic piercing.
A 14 year old girl's bedroom is by no standards the ideal setting for this kind thing, especially with a doors open rule, and parents home. Right after getting the marking done, and the needle package almost open, we heard the call: "HEY! You two! Your breakfast is ready, get down here!" So with no other option, we went downstairs, and put it off for a few minutes.
I spent the entire meal shaking, having no idea what it was going to feel like. The only other piercing I have ever had was getting my ears gunned and then stretched. Words cannot describe how scared I was. That is a very valuable area to me. And right until it happened, I was very worried that I would "change" my mind at the last minute, as always.
After breakfast, we went back up to the bedroom, and got right down to work, so that I wouldn't miss my bus home. The first problem was that after the needle came out of it's package, the protective plastic sleeve got stuck, and took about three minutes to get off. But, it did in the end get off safely.
Even though the piercer is my girlfriend, she was under very strict instuctions to be as professional as possible.
So now I am laying pants down on a 14 year olds bed with blankets over my face so I can't see, and she says "Ok, this might hurt a little." That was the understatement of the century. Actually, it hurt so bad when the needle was coming through I twitched, and now the hole is very slightly off the markings, and a little bit crooked.
Once the needle was the whole way through, and the barbell was in, without the ball, we heard the terrifying sound of someone coming up the stairs. I upped my pants, and hoped so hard that barbell would stay in. Thankfully it did, but the quick pulling up of my pants was a bad idea, and hurt very badly. Because of the positioning, the ball was quite hard to screw on, much harder than I had expected.
I then caught my bus, and went back to my own town. I went up to my friends house, the one who was most sure that I would never do it, and told him the great news. And, of course, he didn't believe me. So... I whipped down my pants, and he screamed and left the room. It was possible the most proud moments of my life, showing that I did do it, and making the biggest, toughest, most comfortable person with the human body I know scream and run. I don't think I have even been as close to my girlfriend as I am now, after helping me get the one thing I wanted most in the world, and I have definatly learned a few lessons about D.I.Y pubic piercings, and the piercing in general. Like: 1.Do it with a person you trust. 2.Do not do it in a place where you have to be worried about being found. 3.It hurts. A lot. But it's worth is. 4. Do not wear tight or low rise pants while it is still fresh.
5. Its worth it if you really want it. 6. Everyone will want to see it.
I guess that's my experience with it so far, even though it's hardly a day old.