My initial reaction to the idea of piercing my genitals was appalling. I would have never done it in this life time. That was a few years ago. A week ago, after many months of researching about PA piercing I decided it was time. It was time to put aside the fear, or embarrassment that I thought I'd feel and just do it.
At A Glance Author Scott Contact Scott@bme.anon When A week ago Artist Ryan Studio The Hole Look Location Alaska The idea started after needing a major change in my life, and what better way than having something done to the area of a male body that most would not understand or ever consider.
The worst part of the entire procedure was the day leading up to the actual piercing. Sitting at a desk in a cubicle with only one thing on my mind was torture. I was so ready but at the same time extremely scared of what was about to happen. Was it going to hurt? What were the people at the studio going to say or think after they found out I wanted a PA?
I made a phone call about 30 minutes to quitting time to a friend just to say hi, unbeknownst to them I was about to get pierced and a normal friendly conversation was the last bit of courage and motivation I needed to go through with it.
I pulled up to the shop at 4:30 pm, walked up to the lady behind the desk and said "I'd like to get a PA". She didn't even blink, instead she turned to the jewelry and we started talking about what I wanted what gauge I wanted and she answered all of my initial questions quickly and very nicely. We decided on a curved, 10 gauges, barbell.
I filled out a few forms stating I was of age etc etc and she said it would be about 40 minutes. So I left the shop grab a small bite to eat and headed back in at 4:50. In a few minutes the piercer walked up asked if I was ready, I nodded and we headed back into his studio.
The next thing I know he is asking me to drop my pants and to hop up onto the table. In stead of thinking about it I do it and he begins explaining the procedure, exactly like I had read online.
The worst part of the actual piercing was the receiving tube. He slid it into place, marked everything up and told me to take a breath. I breathe in, I breathe out, there is a sharp pinch and its over. I was so relieved and excited. After it was finished we sat and talked a few minutes about aftercare and about how amazed I was that it was so simple. I thanked Ryan several times, tipped him, and walked out of the shop at 5:00 pm with a PA. All the years and months leading up to it were worth it. If I could relive those few moments again I would.
After about a week of having the piercing I've had very minimal bleeding, most of the bleeding occurred the first morning afterwards waking up with an erection. There were a few spots of blood on my boxers but nothing major. There is initially some slight pain and discomfort but that has gone away quickly. Walking about with a secret that no one in my family or in my office know about makes me feel very confident.
Aftercare is a snap. Urinating will do a lot of the cleaning and sanitizing that is needed to prevent infection. Using a salt water solution to soak and clean the piercing 3-4 times a day is painless and quick. It in fact makes the whole area feel a lot better the first few days while you are still adjusting the new sensations and tenderness.
To anyone thinking about getting a PA, I'd strongly recommend it. Just do it. It's not nearly as bad as our minds make it out to be. Its simple, its fast, its not anywhere as painful as people think it will be and I promise you'll be happy once it's done.
My PA experience was amazing, I wouldn't go back and change anything about it, I'm glad I did it, no regrets. I'll use this change as a stepping stone to walk away from my past and into a new future. After getting the PA I've had tons more motivation to pursue other piercing and other facets in life I've always been intimidated by. Take this opportunity in life to do what pleases you and pursue areas of your life that need a change. A PA is a great way to get started.
I'd be happy to answer any questions someone might have in regards to what they could expect, what were the motivational factors of getting a PA were etc.
Take care everyone,
Scott