My PA & Me - A 30th Birthday To Remember!

At A Glance Author anonymous Contact anonymous@bme.anon Artist John Studio Electric Body Art Location Hollywood, Florida

I had planned on doing this for a while, I just wasn't 100% sure that when it came down to it, I'd be able to actually go through with it! This was going to be a Birthday gift from my Fiance. something I asked for ... and since this was the big "30", I wanted to do something I was sure to remember always! (getting your cock pierced would do it, right?!?!) I have this ritual now -- For the past 5 years I've always gotten a tattoo on my birthday (as well as in-between!) So I thought I'd try something new!

I'm no stranger to Body Piercings or Tattoos ... I have several of each, (more Tattoos than piercings) but it wasn't until a few years ago that I got into body piercing. I started with my Navel, of all things, and my experience really wasn't good at all. It was a little more painful than I thought it might be, and as if the healing time (about a year or so) wasn't bad enough, it was always infected, although I followed the care instructions to the letter. After a while past, I decided the next thing I'd pierce was my tongue. Easy and pretty painless. Just before I got that done at the piercer, I remember my fiance telling me that the next thing I'll get pierced is my nipples! I told her she was out of her mind! Well, she knows me better than I do, because about 3 months later, I was talking about getting them pierced. Painful? Yes, definitely ... but worth it! (women's piercings in that area are less painful) While we were there doing my nipples, my Fiance said to me what I'd get pierced next -- You can probably see where I'm going with this -- again I told her she was crazy ... and, well, here I am with my new PA!

The Piercing ... I've been going to the same piercer for all my piercings now. I trust him implicitly. He has done the piercings on my Fiance as well. When I decided to get a PA, I went over and talked to him about it. We'd discussed the possibility before, but never with the intent of me actually getting it done anytime soon. He told me of his own PA experience, as well as what many people he's pierced over the years have told him. I was surprised to hear that it hurt very little, if at all. So we planned on doing it in two weeks after I got back from a vacation ... which would be one day after my 30th birthday! He said to call a few days before we come in, so he could order the appropriate jewelry, if necessary. I asked my Fiance to do a little research online about this for me (she's the computer person around here!) I was glad to hear all positive things, and she got me to read a few "experiences" here at BME as well -- That's the reason I decided to write about mine. There was one tiny thing she left out, but I'll get to that later. :)

We made an apointment for a friday, and went in around 7pm. I was nervous as hell! I mean, someone was about to put a needle through my most prized possesion! I filled out the forms, and he then showed me 2 different jewelry sizes; One a little larger gauge than the other. He said he wouldn't know exactly which one he'd need till he actually saw me. My anxiety level rose, and I wasn't sure how I (or my "friend") would react when I had to drop my pants. He showed me as he removed all the sterilized products, and showed me a brand new, sealed needle -- things I had seen him do when I've been pierced in the past. He put on gloves and made sure everything was clean a second time, he cleaned the jewelry to be used, then removed his gloves -- he then put on a fresh pair of gloves and readied the lounger (like what you'd see in a dental office) cleaned it and pulled fresh paper from the roll at the top of the chair, and changed gloves again. I then dropped my pants so he could see what he was working with ... we all decided on which jewelry we thought was best, then I lay down in the chair. After changing gloves another time, I waited there, exposed, for him to do the deed. He mentioned something I'd never heard of ... a tube of some sort ... had no clue what it was. My fiance then told me she didn't mention that to me because she didn't fully understand it herself and didn't want to scare me. I wasn't happy, but wondered what it was. He needed to get what he thought was the correct size tube for me, then he explained what it was in detail -- that's the tiny thing my fiance had left out!

Before he was ready to pierce me, he put on new gloves (Yet again - a good thing!) and explained what he was doing - the most painful part for me was him inserting the "Receiveing/Receiver Tube" It's a metal tube that goes into the Urethra to "recieve" the needle after piercing. My Fiance was so into this -- she watched the entire process, and I just gritted my teeth, waiting!! Then he told me to breathe in deeply, and as I breathe out, he'll pierce me. I started to breathe out and in went the needle -- I swear it didn't hurt at all and I barely felt it! To my amazement, it was a little pinch and that was it! I looked into my girls eyes, and she into mine, and she & I just smiled. She later told me that immediately after the needle went through, she saw the color go back into my face! He then put in the jewelry, a CBR, which also didn't hurt much, and that was it! I took a look and loved what I saw. He told me that although there wasn't any blood now, there might be, and to be aware that it is normal. He also explained that it would take me a little while to pee normally - that I'd probably spray in a few different directions, and that I should sit down to pee till I could get into control again. (I still don't have that part down pat as of yet!) We asked about sex - Although he knows that we're monogomous for 6 yrs, I was told to use condoms for the first week or so (which we always use anyway) and to wait about 2 weeks before oral, and to at least make sure I was no longer bleeding and there was no strange discharge, which there never was. I pulled up my jeans and we walked out to the front, paid and he then went over the cleaning process for me.

We ran a few errands after, and about an hour later, went to pick up dinner -- good thing I had on a long shirt with my jeans, because as I sat down I noticed a blood spot! For the next few days, I bled a little on & off ... a minor side effect. Although I was told of a couple things to do to keep from getting bloodstains on my clothes, what I actually did was weird -- lets just say I borrowed something from my Fiance to keep the blood in one place!! And, it worked like a charm! LOL!

Three Weeks Later ...

All is well ... I got a little sore, but only right where I was pierced. Other than that, it's perfect! Lovemaking is verrrry interesting - she can feel the piercing and really likes where it hits inside her! It's made us experiment a little more than usual, and we were already quite acrobatic!!! =) My head is a bit more sensitive as well, which feels great! Having the ring there also gets her very hot - she always loved to perform oral and is THE best, but now she can't wait to get to me and my PA!!! I's weird, but it's really made our sex life go up a few notches! In the beginning, we did use 2 condoms at a time for a while ... till we were sure it wouldn't break ... and it never did. (That was my fiance's idea!) And to this day I have not regretted doing it -- it's easy and painless, really ... the worst thing was the nervousness before! I had my Fiance take pics and we will soon submit them to BME.

If you guys are considering this and are sure you'd like to get it done I say do it! You will be surprised at the lack of pain involved in this piercing, and healing is extremely quick. You'll love the results you get from your partner!!! As the saying goes - "Just Do It!"

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