freaky frenum fun

At A Glance Author holey-man Artist personal friend (wishes to remain anonymous) Studio my home Location Ithaca, NY

For many years I had been intrigued by the thought of genital piercing. I had piercings on many other areas of my body, including: a 12g industrial, a 10g orbital, a 12g daith, a 10g madison, a 12g tragus, two 10g nipple rings, two nose rings, and many standard ear and cartilage piercings. I began to feel like I was getting to many visible piercings, but did not want to give up the pleasure I get from having new ones done.

So, it was time to move below the waist. I have been married for five years now, and my wife and I share a very active and creative sex life. I had discussed my thoughts about getting a frenum ladder with my wife, and she found the idea exciting. She was a little hesitant at first because she feared that it might make sex uncomfortable. After I assured her that I would remove it if this were the case, she agreed. One problem remained though, neither of us wanted to take a break in our sex lives for the healing process.

However, a point in time came when my wife needed to go away and take care of her ailing mother for a few weeks. This presented the perfect opportunity! So, I called up my friend who has done many of my piercings. He used to be a professional with his own studio, but since then has changed careers and only does piercings for a select group of close friends. Due to the personal nature of this piercing, I did not want to go to any of the local shops, as word sometimes has a way of getting around in a small town. Unlike most of my other piercings, this one was for my wife and I only.

My friend said he would be glad to help me out, although he wanted to make sure that I really wanted to get all four bars at the same time. I informed him that my reasoning was that I did not want to take multiple breaks in my sex life for separate piercings to heal. I assured him that I had carefully thought it out, so he agreed. After purchasing the four 1/2" 10g barbells and sterilizing them at his friend's studio, he arrived at my house. I found myself getting a little nervous, which hadn't happened for my last few piercings.

Although I don't feel that I'm homophobic, I must say I felt a little uncomfortable having a guy do this particular piercing. I had considered going to one of the shops with a woman who does the piercing, but then realized it would be equally uncomfortable sitting down to have it done with a huge erection (because the thought of getting pierced on my cock tends to have that effect). Not to mention,

it would be equally embarrassing to watch it whither as the needle went in (as would probably happen as the fabric of my fantasy meshed with the reality of the pain).

After making a few jokes to ease my tension at having him take a hold of my member, my friend began to make the necessary measurements and marks. The first bar went in without incident, as I expected. The pain factor was minor when compared to some of my other piercings (such as the nipples). The new hole bled very little, as was the same case with all of my previous piercings. However, as he put the needle through for the second bar, it seemed to hurt slightly more than the first.

The level of pain began to get a little more intense by the third one. I was acutely aware of the sensation of the needle being slid through the fresh hole. I then was given a little breather because he had a little trouble getting the ball to thread onto the barbell. As he began to put the needle through for the fourth bar, I involuntarily flinched, causing him to angle the needle wrong. He then backed it out a bit and pushed it the rest of the way though. By this point I was feeling a little light headed. That rush, that is the feeling that got me addicted to piercings in the first place!

The next couple of days I was pretty sore, but I had it done on a Friday, so was able to take it easy for the weekend, and my job requires mostly working on a computer so the healing process went pretty well. After four weeks, the bar that I flinched for began to reject, but with a little extra care was saved. My wife absolutely loved it when she came home. She says she loves to feel each bar entering her. She says it brought our sex life to a whole new level, and that she found it aesthetically pleasing. I must say, I agree! Needless to say, there was never any discussion about taking them out. So, for those of you considering this particular piercing, we give it two thumbs up!