It was only a few weeks after my first ever piercing, and I was back for more.
At A Glance Author Cronos Contact Cronos@bme.anon When A month ago Artist Maria Studio Four Roses Location Adelaide, Australia
Just a few weeks ago, I had my frenum pierced, and I was back to see Maria at Four Roses to have it stretched from 14 gauge to 10, and while talking to Maria, I decided to have another piercing. I've always been a fairly unassuming person, and very few people are aware of my piercing, so I still wanted something that would remain hidden, except for the few people that I wanted to see it. I was either going to start to turn my frenum into a ladder, or move to a piercing on the scrotum. Due to training starting again soon, the apadravya still on my 'to do' list will have to wait until next year. I think there will be *way* too much movement down there for something so extreme.
It didn't take long to decide that a scrotal piercing was the way to go, and Maria suggested that it could be placed in such a spot that the frenum barbell would rub when I wasn't erect. Sounded good to me, so down went the trousers, and up on the table I went.
First thing was the stretch of the frenum, and HOLY F$%^&NG HELL THAT HURT! Although in hindsight I have a feeling that because the piercing was less than I expected it would be, I assumed the stretch would be easier, so I wasn't prepared for anything. A few minutes of recovery was needed before I could even consider another needle going in down there.
Luckily there was marking to do, which gave me some time to compose myself and prepare for the next one. Placement was decided in the middle of the scrotum, right where the barbell touches as was previously discussed. Marks were made, and Maria got me to stand, so as to re-check that the marks were straight. Obviously, when I stood, things moved around a little, so the marks were erased, and she had another go. Three more attempts were required to find just the right spot that stayed straight. Out came the mirror, and up went my thumb in approval.
The needle, clamps, scissors, and jewellery all came out of the sterile packaging, and it was time for it to happen.
I laid back, everything was lined up and the clamps were put in place. Maria asked if I was ready. Now came the moment that I suddenly felt pathetic. The pain of the frenum stretching was still in my mind and I wasn't ready for another just yet. I asked for a few moments, and took a few deep breaths to psych myself up for the experience.
After a few moments, I told Maria I was ready, although I wasn't 100% sure I was, but I knew if I delayed it any more, I might back out. Normal procedure came on, Maria instructed me to take a couple deep breaths, and she'd pierce on the third exhale.
In... Out... In... Out... Iiiiiiiiinnnnnnnn.. Out and pierce.
I started laughing. I'd just spent the past ten minutes building up nerves and doubts, for a piercing that I literally didn't even feel. I had to ask Maria if she had actually pierced me yet, and she started laughing at my reaction as well.
A quick refresher on aftercare, and a good look in the mirror again (I can't believe how often I'm staring at myself now. They look fantastic.)
Healing has been slower than I expected, but I think I had unrealistic expectations after the frenum healed so quickly. It's now about 6 weeks later, and the crusties have dropped right off, and there's no redness or swelling to speak of, but I think I'm still two or three weeks away from stretching to a larger size.
Maria pierces male genitals at 14 gauge, which I find to be a little small, but I'd prefer for her to do whatever she's most comfortable with. I don't want anyone experimenting with anything they're not accustomed to when it comes to my genitals. Besides, it's not difficult to stretch later (despite my comments above on the pain – the overall gain so far is well worth the shock). I look forward to stretching the scrotum to 10 gauge, then 8 gauge to catch up with the frenum which is going to 8 gauge soon. Once I'm there, I'll decide if I want to go any larger.
At the moment, I've found that Maria was certainly right. When I'm not erect, the natural bounce while I walk makes the two piercings hit each other, which sends a vibration right down the frenum bar. Needless to say, I've taken up walking for exercise now.
Given that day again, I'd do it all exactly the same. I'm so happy with my new addition, and I'm looking forward to getting even more done.