My boyfriend of the time was into piercing himself and tattooing himself. He wasn't a professional but had been doing it long before it was popular and there were piercing places everywhere so he just got in a habit of doing it himself or having people that he cared about it do it for him. He thought that it made the whole experience a lot more important and memorable. He could tell you where each of his piercings were done and by who. He did a lot of his own, but he liked having other do it for him, as do I now. So I was the chosen one, for this piercing. I had already pierced his ear a while before. We had this whole routine to do. First we boiled everything metal we would use. We boiled the ring, the needle, the clamps (forceps), and then I believe he bleached the ring. This is not really the best sterilization method. He had an 8g needle, a new one never been used, and a 10g cbr ring. He liked to use a bigger needle so the ring would go in easier. I'm not sure how good of an idea that is, for it causes extra bleeding and a bit of a space to get infected easier. But that is what he preferred to do, so that's what we did.
At A Glance Author AFrenzy Contact AFrenzy@bme.anon When A year ago I was pretty nervous about piercing him with an 8g needle, let alone on his scrotum. But he didn't seem nervous at all, so it eased me a bit. We were doing a second hafada, below his first one, so it had a ladder effect. I'm not sure if there is a normal placement for these types of piercings but his were in the middle of his sac. We had everything ready, boiled and bleached. We both washed our hands and then had to pick a place to do the deed. We decided the easiest way would be for us both to be on the bed. So he took his pants off and sat on the bed, kind of Indian style but leaning back a little bit. I placed everything we would need on a paper towel and laid it on the bed. We got some extra paper towels for the bleeding. Also he, and I also now, swear by this herbal savvy stuff. It has myrrh and golden seal in it, it's amazing stuff, it helps it heal and myrrh has a natural numbing effect. So I lubed up the needle with this salve. He made a dot with a marker where he wa nted the ring to go. We had already been over how to hold the needle. He got ready, leaned back and held everything out of the way for me. I put the forceps on him, brushed back my fear sucked in a few deep breaths. I knew that once I touched the needle to his skin I just had to push it through or it would make it more painful for him. I held the forceps with my left hand, got the needle up to the dot, touched it with the needle, perfect placement, and pushed it right through.
The adrenaline was rushing for the both of us. I took the forceps off of him, very carefully, so a not to hit the needle sticking out of his flesh. I took the ball off of the CBR and gave him the ring. He put it in himself by putting it into the needle and pulling it through. That's the hardest part, it my opinion, trying to get the ring into the hole. But he did it perfect. That's when the blood starts. There wasn't a lot just a little bit oozing out of the hole. He couldn't get the ball into the ring so I helped him with that. He said it didn't hurt as much as his first one, and mine was a lot straighter then the first one. So I was pleased. He went to the bathroom to have a look at it and wash it off a bit. Then he put more salve on and we were done.
It was an all in all good experience for the both of us. We both went on to pierce each other again. Piercing the person you love it a very intimate thing, even more so where this one was. I think that this experience brought us both a lot closer. But looking back on it there was a lot that could have gone wrong. This is not by all means a step by step of how to pierce, it's just my experience, have a professional handy.
He was amazed by how fast this piercing healed up. It took about 3 weeks and was sore for a few days after. As far as I know he still has it and hasn't added anymore down there.