I have been interested in the S/M and Bondage subculture for quite a few years now. Even since I can remember the thought of a women in suspenders, stockings, garter, choker or gloves aroused me to no end. (I guess that's why girls in-the-know wear them. Ha ha.) I went to a few BDSM clubs just out of interest a few times. I also dated a few women who were interested in toying with that lifestyle occasionally. In other words, they liked to be restrained and spanked before sex. Pretty basic stuff.
At A Glance Author Kroisty Contact kroisty@aol.com When A month ago Artist Josh Studio Lasting Images Location Orlando, Florida
I have never gotten a tattoo and probably never will. I also never thought that I would be the kind of person to get a piercing. I never cared much for them. I had a girlfriend with your standard Brit Spears belly button piercing. It did nothing but annoy me because it hurt her for a year every time I touched it. So, when I would caress her tummy - working my way down from the boobs to the bottom – you understand, there was always this obstacle.
One day, months after we were broken up she asked me if I would like to take her to get her nipples done. I said sure. The thought of seeing my ex get a needle stuck through her tits was kinda erotic. And the actual experience was pretty awesome. From that day on I wouldn't dream of ever dating a girl without pierced nips. Either that, or any prospective girlfriend would have to get 'em done pronto.
I began researching the historical background of piercing. I had spent several years in Africa as a boy and could remember seeing men with huge stretched earlobes, and women with craned necks and stretched lip corks. But it was the male genital piercing traditions of the primitive people of Borneo that captured my fascination. The Ampallang (or Palang I believe is the correct term) was of particular interest to me. In my humble opinion it is the ultimate piercing a human being could have. Before you get too excited I do NOT have an Ampallang. As much as I admire it, I do not possess the testicular fortitude at this time to allow my glans to be crossbowed with a piece of metal and take a year to heal. But damn!!! It made me start thinking about getting a piercing in that region somewhere.
The ancient Aryan Sanskrit writings about the Aparavya and Dydoe were interesting too. Their statues and temples are inspirational in the art of love and eroticism.
The snob in me was partial to the regal status of the Prince Albert. Now there is a piercing I could enjoy. Having the interior of the urethra stimulated by a foreign object during sex has GOT to one of the most erotic experienced a man can have. I decided to definitely keep and open mind to the PA.
Everyone has to start somewhere. After careful consideration I decided on a scrotal ring. My reasons where: a) it looks like it hurts the least, b) I can still urinate normally, c) (the real reason) I love the stimulation on my balls when I am "at it".
So I went to the same piercer my ex had gotten her nipples (and later hood) done at. But a storm had blown away their sign and awning and I couldn't find the place for the life of me. I was determined. I had to get this done. So I found another parlor. Naturally the piercer wasn't in. There was a few cuties who where ahead of me waiting for their Brit Spears ubiquitous belly button rings. After two hours Josh finally showed up and did them in minutes. I was glad that there were no customers behind me and that Josh and I would talk about my "case".
He showed me snaps of some of his work. I was impressed. He had personally had an Apadravya, but explained that because of the added stimulation during sex he was not able to perform for very long. So he removed it. What a pity.
I went to the bathroom and marked off the position I wanted the piercing. I had selected a 10 gauge ring with an added jewel. I held it to my testicles and critically surveyed it in the mirror. Not bad, I thought. Let's do this thing.....
Josh had his equipment all set up. It looked more like a doctors office than a tattoo parlor. He sterilized the scrotum and marked it with a pen. I held the nutsack for him while he inserted the receiving tube. Yeeeeooowww!!!!!!!!! The pain was intense for a split second. I whelped involuntarily. I glanced down and there was this THICK needle poking through my scrotum. Josh made me promise not to move while he removed the tube and inserted the jewel. It hurt like hell.
Within minutes he was done. And I had joined the world of freaks out there. I looked down at my new self. And DAMN!!! Didn't it just look great. I paid him US$80 and limped out of there. I drove to work. Fortunately I have an office job which does not requite much moving around. I was hurting.
I called my boss to the men's room and showed him what I had done. To my slight dismay I saw that I was bleeding pretty badly. I padded my boxers with toilet paper and went back to work. I was pretty satisfied with the look of anguished horror on my bosses face when he saw the bloody ring shoved through my nads. A few hours later he spotted me trying to alight from my desk with a grimace on my face. He burst out laughing. It was a private joke between us. In spite of the pain I found it funny too.
Not too many days later I got to have sex with my new gear. Now this is interesting. Doing the missionary was great. There was a wonderful tap-tapping on my balls while I pumped. For that reason alone I would recommend this piercing to all males. After awhile she wanted to get on top. Now this was a big mistake. As she was grinding me, her ass was rubbing my scrotal. That would feel great when it was healed, but, seeing as it was still a fresh wound, it hurt like hell. I asked her to stop and we finished off the business doing the doggie. A most enjoyable position for the newly pierced nuts.
It's been over a month since I got the piercing. I wash it three times a day with anti-bacterial soap. I've never had an infection and it has healed up pretty well. It still hurts if I sit wrong etc. But for the most part I really enjoy it.
Another thing I have noticed is that my orgasms are much more intense. I wonder if there is anyone out there who has had the same experience? Whether masturbating or screwing I have noticed that my ejaculations are much more copious and powerful. I have shot myself in the eyes several times. Now I know how you girls feel. Burns, doesn't it?
I have decided to go one up and get a Prince Albert. A scrotal ladder might be a nice addition. And so, like all of you, my genitalia has become a work in progress.