My story is stranger than fiction. However it is true and it has taken many years to tell.
At A Glance Author anonymous Artist My Son Studio At Home Location Central canada >From my first recalled memories I've had a fascination about piercing, especially genital piercing. As a youth I dreamed about it, and the idea was ingrained in my mind. I remember looking at a National Geographic Magazine where the males all had what appeared to be genital piercings [the quality and clarity of the pictures were not great]. I resolved that one day I was going to have "one". As I lived in an area and time where body piercing was not openly done, and not being brave [or foolish] enough to do my own, I kept this dream as a fantasy. Several times I considered piercing myself but never had the "right" equipment or nerve. I grew up frustrated and unfulfilled.I was married and had kids. Life it seemed was going to pass without me achieving my fantasy.
After a messy marriage breakup and a long period of isolation, I met and married the most wonderful girl of my dreams. She was open minded self confident and loving, just a perfect mate. Now this is where my story begins to unfold.
My son who was heavily into piercing was living with us. My wife was wanting to have another piercing done, but had had a very bad experience with her first ones. She said that she would feel better if we could be pierced together, but wanted to keep it a private experience, "keeping it in the family". We discussed this at length. We reviewed the possibilities and the locations of our preposed piercings. We decided that mine would be a frenum and hers would be,well that's another story. I had made a metal ring so that we could try the different locations to see which would be the best for looks and function.
We then asked my son if he could and would "do the deed". He had been concidering piercing as a carreer,and was working with someone who was "piercing professionally". My son was actively doing piercings for many of his friends, including genital piercing. He thought it over and came back to us saying that he would do it. I was so excited that I was finally going to achieve my dream.
The supplies were purchased and jewelry obtained. The day of the deed arrived. It seemed to take forever, I was impatient, I wanted it done yesterday. Since my divorce, my son and I had developed a special close and open relationship, more like trusting friends than father- son. He was very nervous, but extremely professional. With the help of my wife he prepared the "work" area, then cleaned and marked the entrance and exit points. Once the markings were in a place agreeable to both he and my wife,he asked if I was sure that this was what I wanted. I assured him that it was. He proceeded to clamp and prepared to pierce. As my wife lovingly held my hand, my son pierced my frenum. A quick pinch followed by a sudden rush of adrenaline and it was done. A life long dream was now a reality. My son then placed in the barbell. Afterwards he said that he would have preferred to use a CBR, to make aftercare and healing easier.But I was in such a rush i wouldn't/ couldn't wait any longer to have my dream come true.
When I looked at my new piecing and then at my son, he said "wow,I guess we are now bonded in a unique way". He was shaking all over and had to pause before starting on his stepmom's piercing. She was nervous but again he was very professional, and went right to work. As i stated before she had a very unplesant experience with her first piercings, but when she saw how well he had done with me, she was at peace. Her piercing went so smoothly that she decided that she would "do it again".
The aftercare was fairly uneventful and went very smoothly,except I couldn't wait to try it out. The only problem that I experienced at all was an accident using a snowmobile. I don't recommend snowmobiling with a fresh genital piercing. I developed a tear which now results in a large piercing. That was more than ten years ago. My son and I still have a special freindship and bond. He later said that this was the most intense moment of his life and that he was so nervous that he had almost called it off.
Since then I have fufilled my fantasy and have had multiple genital piercings. The next birthday present from my son was a gift certificate for another genital piercing at EXPERIENCE THE BEAUTY. Aa note attached stated that he was glad that I had shared the first piercing with him, but his nerves couldn't stand the strain of another.
Both my wife and I have shared the professional services of Exprience the Beauty, and have found both Jason and Sue to be the very BEST.They're shop is small but clean. Their sterile technic is excellent and they CARE.As well they have the necessary spore checks and ultrasonically clean and autoclave everything.
I have pursued my dream and now have had a total of three guiches, eight hafida's [in a ladder],several pubics, my original frenum and one central dyadoe.My frenum is now stetched to 5/8" diameter and I have had to special order a barbell with 3/4" beads. All of my piercings have been rewarding and very useful. Only a few chosen know of their existance,my wife my son and my piercers.