I received a frenum piercing back in Jan 2007. It was a great experience. But I did have one problem worth understanding.
At A Glance Author BDM111 When Six months ago Artist Daniel Studio Body Exotic Location San Jose CA
I had been considering either a frenum of PA for about 3 months. I had looked around San Jose for a couple of weeks and finally picked Body Exotic as the people there were very friendly, it was very clean and they had a great supply of jewelry. I took off from work one afternoon and met Daniel there. He showed me the cubicles and their autoclaves, and explained the piercing process. He then showed me the barbell he would use. He picked a 10g 5/8 (I have since moved to an 8ga 7/16 and am planning to stretch again to a 6ga in another month).
He asked me to show him where I wanted the piercing and after marking exactly where I wanted the barbell to go he asked me to take 3 deep breaths. On the 3rd breath I felt a burning sting for a couple of seconds, it was very intense but was over by the time it was really noticeable. He pushed the barbell through and screwed on the end. We were done.
He wrapped the end of my cock up in some gauze and a latex glove and explained that some bleeding is inevitable – I should check it occasionally and call him if there are any problems. We talked about after care and what problem signs to look for. That was it. I walked back to my car and went back to work.
My wife was in a little shock at first when I showed her, but it looked great. The healing process was faster than I thought. I had very minor bleeding the first couple of days but I followed Daniel's advice, washed regularly morning and night with antibacterial soap, salt soaks each night etc. The salt soaks are great. I also had a little bruising but that disappeared with a couple of days. The piercing was not painful. I wrapped a little gauze around the tip of my cock each day just incase I bled, but never had a problem.
No sex for the first 5 days but by the end of the week I gave it a try. I used a condom to limit the amount of "tug" on the barbell. I could feel the difference immediately. Within 2 weeks we were back to a regular routine without the condom. My wife said she could definitely feel the jewelry inside her and was a little hesitant because of the sensation. At first she felt uncomfortable as I enter her but we found that a little lube can really help. We had to make some adjustments so that the barbell didn't drag on the entrance of her pussy. But once inside it was less noticeable for her. When I pulled out I also had to slow down and avoid a sudden dragging sensation on her inner lips.
It also made a clicking noise against her teeth that she didn't like. Then she discovered that she could grip me inside her pussy. Unbelievable! She was sold!
Anal was out of the question for months. Gradually she has adjusted but it wasn't until she was completely comfortable that we tried anal again. And again, a little lube goes a long way.
I also discovered a new level of physical sensitivity. I can "edge" for hours now. The barbell amplifies the sensation of friction. I had some of the best orgasms of my life since getting pierced. I still wonder what a ladder would feel like.
About 2 months after the initial piercing I decided to remove the barbell for an hour to compare the sensation of sex without it. That's when the problem started. When I tried to get the barbell back in, I couldn't. The hole had closed up. I tried lube and corkscrewing the barbell back into place but couldn't even get the tip back into the piercing. After about 15 minutes realized I was just irritating the skin and making it worse. The next morning I went back to Daniel.
Daniel explained that the skin on your cock is relatively rich in blood vessels and a piercing, no matter how healed, can close up fairly fast there. He also pointed out that I had not given it enough time for complete healing. He took a look and commented that it looked painful – I had obviously "played" with it too much. He used a stretching taper to open the piercing – it was far more painful that the piercing itself. But it was over soon enough I was back on my way. By the next morning it was as if it had never been removed.
So now I am a little more attentive to advice. I have started stretching, this time I read their instructions and aftercare carefully. I would like to get to a 2ga by year end. A big chunk of metal hanging from the end of my cock will look great and feel fantastic.
Look for some pics over the next months.