This is just basically a general experience on my frenum piercing. Why I chose it, how I got it, and what I thought afterwards.
At A Glance Author Steven Hill Contact steven1986@comcast.net IAM sausage When A year ago Artist Ian Cherry Studio Level 5 Location Sarasota, Florida When I had decided to get my first genital piercing, it had been two years since my last. Quite by accident, I had come across BME one day and started looking around. I spent hours looking around, reading experiences, browsing pictures and portfolios. It was all so interesting, and there was such a wealth of it! I fell in love immediately.
This was also the first time I had come across such a vast amount of information on genital modification. Up until then I had only really known about the PA (who doesn't?) I had always wanted a PA, but never had the stomach to go and get it. I definitely didn't' want to just jump into it, especially after reading a couple experiences.
There were so many different ones to choose from. I didn't want something that was going to take too long too heal. I also didn't want too deep of a piercing, or one that was going to bleed a lot. I had considered getting a dydoe, but given the difficulty of the piercing, and the high chance of rejection, I decided this would be too much for the first one.
When I came across the frenum, and frenum ladders, I was immediately intrigued. It seemed a fairly simple and easy procedure. Minimal bleeding, little tissue used. This was, I decided, a great starter. Almost over-night I decided that it was definitely something I wanted to get. I called up Robin, and asked her if she wanted to go with me. She said sure, she was game to see me squirm again.
I had three piercings prior to this, all of which being on the face. My tongue, labret, and eyebrow had all been retired by now. It had been so long since my last piercing, I kind of forgot what to expect. Especially with it being in the area that it was in. That's half the fun though, right?
I went in within a few days of deciding what I wanted. I asked Ian if he would do it, being that I knew him most, and trusted his hand with a needle. He said yeah, he had no problem with it, as long as I didn't have a problem with him touching my privates. I said I didn't with a wink, and he pulled out the paper-work.
About this time, a wave of anxiety hit. Only with my first piercing had I been apprehensive, being that I didn't know what to expect. This was, however, my most anticipated and uneasy piercing. I guess I mostly just hyped myself up, but I'd be damned if I wasn't getting it done right then.
After the paperwork was filled out, he walked me and my ex to he back room and sat me on the table. He asked me to "whip out my wang," and I did. I guess I was a little more nervous than I had realized, because the poor thing shrunk up all but inside me. My ex and Ian had fun with this for a minute, then we continued.
After choosing position, and sterilization, it was go time. As he sat there holding the needle against my member, I was strangely aroused. This was no fun, because I couldn't have sex for awhile, but all was well. We did the usual breathe in/out thing, and bam, we were done. It was a slight pinch, but the least painful of my piercings. I found that quite surprising.
Afterwards I couldn't really see what it looked like because the turtle wouldn't come from his shell. I went and got some tight underwear to wear while it was healing. It was a little weird getting used to the jewelry, while it was healing, but afterwards I hardly noticed it. It just looks so pleasing to me.
Being that I'm trying to stray from the prominent piercings, most of my piercings from here are most likely to be genital related. If my partner doesn't want me to continue on the actual shaft, I've looked into transscrotal piercings and ladders. I'd also like to get a set of surface piercings on my hips to accentuate them.
I love my piercing, and I hope to one day extend to a ladder. My girlfriend, however, is against the idea. She says they're uncomfortable for her during sex. For the time being, I've decided to lay off the genitals. I can't say that I won't eventually do it though. A pair of dydoes is something else I'm very interested in getting, once I find a qualified piercer. Depending on my partner's feelings towards it, I've always found genital beading aesthetically pleasing (Yes, I'm in love with my own cock.)