I have always thought that a genital piercing was something I would never do. But it just kind of happened... I was alone, my girl friend was at track practice and I was bored... I just thought to myself... I'm eighteen and can go get a piercing... my family believes that piercing is destruction of the body so I couldn't go with something visible. I started to look around on bme and noticed the frenum piercing. I was so interested that I called Sarah at body stain in Columbus Ohio, best. Piercer . Ever. I could not decide weither a frenum or a PA would be better, but after reading stories about how a frenum didn't really bleed and hurt that badly then I decided on it. Body stain is usually only open until 7:00 but Sarah made an exception for me because she is just that nice of a person. I was referred to Sarah by a friend of mine who had her do a Madison.
At A Glance Author anonymous When A month ago Artist sarah Studio Bodystain Location Ohio So I go get a shower, shave (well I was gona get pierced by a girl!), and got dressed. I picked up my girl friend and head off. To the Shop. It's about a 45 min drive from where I live to body stain but I made it there in 35 because of the lack of traffic and me feeling like I had to floor it. Don't do that. The entire time was spent with me trying to explain to my girl friend that a frenum was not ugly and that she would understand it after I got it. She finally gave in and I had all the permission I needed. (I'm wiped I know)
The time came, they copied my I.D. and I sat on a couch and looked through Sarah's book o piercings. There was so many. With only my girl friend there to comfort me I started to sweat. A local guy was playing his guitar and then started up some halo action. I had to take my mind off the piercing so I looked into the tattoo artist's pictures... would you believe it? Someone got cheeze-its on their hip. This lightened the mood and really gave me enough courage to go through with going back to see Sarah. Sarah called me into the back room where her space is and talked to me about what I was going to do. After a long conversation we got to the point where I took my pants down and she started to mark my frenum... she started with a smaller sized bb but upgraded to a 3/4 14g because it would fit better. The time had come I was either going to freak and leave or relax and get jabbed. She clamped it with a rube band around the clamps for a better feel instead of a pinch. She realized that I really wanted this and took her chance to tell me to breath in. out... in. then I looked down and there was a needle through my penis... I didn't even feel it! The part that was different feeling was the spreading of the skin over the bb because it was scrunched from the clamps before. Sarah changed her gloves 10000000 times, and kept me calm the entire time, talking to me about her experiences to relax me, which I needed
Its exactly 49 days since and I are very happy it's done. I had trouble figuring out what soap to buy, called Sarah a thousand times until she told me to use just plain ol' dial anti bacterial and sea salt soaks only if needed/ everyone in a while. The healing has gone fine, and I really only experienced pain when my friend hit me in the genitals landing a direct hit to my piercing.
Since my piercing I have kept it a secret from my family completely and successfully. The only person that knows is my gf. Recently though, classmates of mine have taken it upon themselves to pierce... themselves... don't do what they did... they used sewing needles boiling water and earrings (eww) I tried to tell them if they were gona do it to go to a professional because it is your PENIS that you're stabbing. They didn't listen to me because they thought I had no idea what I was talking about :-)
My GF enjoys my frenum; she thinks that it enhances the sex. In my opinion I just think it made the sex happen more often.
Do Not Hesitate, I would advise anyone to get this piercing that has a penis of course. But It would be advisable to get all of the frenums you want so they share their healing time. There is no oral contact with the genitals for approx two months L
If you live in Ohio and want ANY piercing... go to Sarah at body stain in Columbus