6 steps to a frenum
At A Glance
Author Adam
Contact stokes3000@hotmail.com
When A month ago
Artist Gordon
Studio under the skin
Location Aldershot, uk
Step 1: Placement

So I had been unsatisfied with my stock issue penis for a while and was consider some sort of upgrade for quite a while, pretty simple thinking really. I looked through the male piercings section on here and checked out what I could do to decorate my manhood with...

Well, after this I had a list of things I needed in my life, I was considering a PA, later turning it into an Apadrayva and getting a Frenum ladder going down, maybe a scrotal ladder, but before all of this I had to test the waters. What better way than to start the ladder, with a Frenum, I'd be there in no time. I wanted a 1.6x10mm BCR put in just there, it was to be done.

Step 2: Logistics

So after a week of should I or shouldn't I? It was blatant that I had to do this; I was defiantly going to do this, but I was also thinking "why not a PA?" I wanted one eventually and if I was going to get a genital piercing why not that? But the thought left pretty quick, I pussied out a bit really. Later that day I phoned a local-ish studio to me that would do it for a good price and they were good too, I also mentioned about a PA but it was going to cost more than I had at the time, I wanted both so I decided I'd get the frenum first to test the waters before taking the dive and getting a piercing through the main part of my penis. I was getting a frenum and I was going to drop in the next day to do it. It was all planned out and I was ready for it.

Step 3: Going through with it

So the next day came fast and I went to the studio with my friend Snazul, my heterosexual life partner. I went straight in to the studio and asked at the counter for a frenum, the guy behind the counter handed me a hand form to sign, which was also the aftercare sheet, which is a pretty good idea. All was signed and paid for and I walked on through to the sterile room. The piercer showed the kind of jewellery he could use and I picked the 1.6x10mm bcr that I wanted from the start.

Step 4: The procedure

So I whipped it out and he numbed me (I don't quite know why because there's not a lot of skin to go through or anything complicated) with an emla injection none the less (I think it was emla) and marked the placement for it. I was prepped and ready, he told me he was going to do it, I watched and it was over. I didn't feel a thing during the whole piercing process, the ring was fed through the cannula and it was in. I could feel that someone one was touching me but I didn't really feel anything close to pain, more discomfort than anything else. He placed the ball in and it was done, no pain, nothing. It was all pretty cool, he explained the aftercare and I left, it all went as planned.

Step 5: Relax

It was done and I left the studio, the emla had worn off and I could feel the ring, it wasn't uncomfortable as much as it was foreign in my body. I could seriously feel the weight which was weird because it's only a tiny ring, it was pretty cool and I got the train back home. It was great and it didn't even bleed, a great way to test the genital piercing waters.

I went home and made a salt solution to clean it straight away; I always do this after getting a new piece of metal. It felt pretty good to have the ring there; I feel that I'm a little closer to truly decorating my cock.

Step 6: Plan ahead

After the great experience I had from this I feel that it is necessary to go back as soon as possible and get a Prince Albert, I'm also compelled to stretch my frenum as soon as it's healed. It's been a good experience really all and all, although I feel a bit ripped off that I was numbed for the piercing, they said it was their shop policy so I guess there's not much I could've done. I recommend going there if you want a genital piercing even though the guy claimed it was the worst part of his job, generally anyone that wants to piss off a tattoo artist/piercing definitely go to under the skin. Although, I do think that I need to change the ring soon, I don't think my body heals as well with steel as it does with titanium.

Anyway, thanks for reading, contact me if you're considering a frenum, in fact if you're considering a frenum then go for it and you won't regret it, trust me.


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been edited. We can not guarantee that the experience is accurate, truthful,
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