At A Glance
Author	Rings of the Lord
Contact	Rings of the Lord@bme.anon
When	Three months ago
Artist	girl
Studio	dedicated piercing studio
Location	uk

Thank you for taking time to read my experience, after reading most of the male genital listings on this site, I have yet to meet someone with a story like mine on BME.

I am a Christian male, married for 13 years, two great kids, the house, the car, the big triumph motorbike, the well paid job, and now a straight bar in my boner !

I am not really a geek, more of a sports bike fan, who decided to live a disciplined lifestyle for Jesus (watch Mel Gibsons' new film 'The Passion of the Christ' if you want to know why !!)

Yes this is my first piercing, but I've plans for either a reverse PA or an apadravya, when I feel the time is right. I work in a hospital environment and have just made the tools and stretched my frenum piercing from a 2mm to a 2.4mm, and have started to make a 3.2mm set.But please don't try this at home , it's not big and it's not clever ,do it professionally; and have someone else to blame ;-}.

But, all this is ' jumping the gun ' though, let me try to tell you the background of my piercing.

I am a sexual male who loves to make love but doesn't get kicks from promiscuity. Being a Christian I believe in fidelity, but live in a practically celibate marriage – (once this year so far !) are you beginning to understand my pain ? :-}

I wanted something to give me a little buzz, something that makes me feel like a sexual being; and in unusual circumstances, can remind me that there is still something between my legs. (Other than my motorbike).

So at the end of January, after searching the Internet, reading many different piercing web sites, then buying the most beautiful rainbow niobium CBR (subsequently too small for any of my plans DOH) and finding a local piercing studio, I went in to the place to check it out and ask initially about an apadravya. I made it plain I was only researching various studios and got a tour of the place, all was fine and I had no worries about what I saw. She said she did not do apadravya's, but advised about having a PA as a first step to see if I could get on with the jewellery.

I got a half-day off from work and at the end of the week and went again to the studio.

I had been looking on BME and didn't really like the look of a normal PA, so I thought an easy start would be a frenum piercing which I could stretch and turn into a large CBR ring and flip it over to mimic an apadravya ball.

With this new plan I went in, waited my turn, did the paper work, went into the piercing room and dropped my trousers and boxer shorts and jumped up on the flat piercing bed.

For a short moment I thought I had left my penis at home, but after careful searching realised that infact it was still there,;-} she said that she had that effect on all the guy's.

I was determined to go through with it so I decided not to look and let her do what she had to do. I regret this now as I think she was nervous too .I forgot to look where she was placing it and I'm not sure she marked up. I stared at the ceiling and she clamped, jabbed, and placed the bar.

Was it painful ? Well the clamp didn't feel as if it was on me, and the piercing was no more painful than getting a hair caught in your foreskin. What turned out to be the worst part was the gauze plaster she put over the bar to catch any spotting of blood. Taking it off my glans was knee collapsing, when I had to go for a pee, after I had driven home.

Looking at it today the piercing has healed at an angle; the ball is 5 mm from my frenum on the left but up tight against it on the right. So it's angled and asymmetric but it's still special to me.

Over all it makes me feel different – I've got a secret !

If you are thinking of getting something done then I'm sure you will realise after reading the various entries on this site , people have vastly differing stories. You will never know what your story will be until you go through the experience, so! Take a deep breath, step out in faith and rejoice in your own inner strength to face and over come your fears; and make a new chapter in your own personal life history.

As for my addition, still haven't used it yet. And my wife still hasn't found it !!! Please feel free to come to my funeral when she does find out !