I don't remember how it started, my fascination with the Frenum. 6 years ago Emily, the owner of Under the Surface, pierced my nipples and on that day I found the only person I wanted poking me. I wanted a Frenum back then as well but I was a virgin and I decided to listen to my mom who just said "Have lots of sex before you go having holes poked in you down there." So, 6 years passed and I was comfortable with my experiences in the sexual arts, had just broken up with my fiancé, and was looking for a way to break off the left over sexual relations...viola, the perfect excuse to get what I had wanted for so long. So, one a day of great frustration I left the ex's house and walked a few miles to visit Emily again, I made an appointment for the next day as early as possible.
At A Glance Author deadboycolin Contact deadboycolin@bme.anon When Three months ago Artist Emily <3 Studio Under the Surface Location Baton Rouge, La. Corner of Perkins & Acadian The next morning rolls around, I have my breakfast, put on my polka-dotted boxers for Emily to get a good laugh (which she did), and stepped out into the new fresh day. I got there about 15 minutes early, perhaps due to the excitement. The day before Emily and I discussed things, and decided that I would get 2 Frenums with 10gauge barbells. Emily arrives and begins to set things up, she's renowned for her cleanliness and rightfully so, her set up is immaculate.
The time for poking comes...
I get down to by boxers and take a seat. It was a cold January 18th mid day. She dots the targets and prepares me for piercing. I had always heard that for a man Nipples was the most painful, and Frenums were not painful. Having had my nipples pierced and remembering the gunshot like feeling as they went through me, I was a bit nervous. And remembering the feeling I got from the nipple piercing made me very excited (I'm a bit of a pain freak). The clamps were the worst part of my previous experience, but this time she used a different kind and they were surprisingly comfortable. The command for a deep breath came...and I took it. There was only a moment of a pinch, and then no pain. Number 2 came directly after...their placements are at 1 & 3, if that means anything to some of you. Again just a moment of pinch, and a second of pain, then no discomfort at all. It was done, I had what I had wanted for so long, and better than that I had 2 of them.
Its been 3 months, there have been no problems whatsoever with these lovely jewels, and I enjoy them very much. My first erection came about 3-4 days after the piercing, it was a bit of a rush, but there wasn't any discomfort really which surprised me. Masturbation was interesting at first, but I feel at home now, in a way it's better than before. Sex is something I haven't tried yet, if I get the right feeling and response I may go ahead and get the last 3 to make my ladder.
I have heard that the Frenum is the best for bringing pleasure to the partner, and adds some interesting sensations for the person with. I hope this is the case. If anyone has considered getting a genital piercing I highly recommend the Frenum. From my short experience with it I have found no flaws (except for maybe scaring off a couple people that I wouldn't have wanted to be with anyway), and its fun. In my opinion they are the sexiest of male genital piercing as well. They are also very durable. I train in kickboxing & boxing, of course we wear cups when we fight. I have received several hard low blows and the piercing gave me no pain or problem. The only problem I ever had with the piercing & boxing was once when I wore the cup and its built in supporter...was the 1st time I wore a cup since being pierced. The built in supported caused the ball to unscrew, I lost it temporarily but found it soon after...and after all of the girls in the dojo asked me what I was look ing for! If anyone that reads this is an athlete, I found a fix for the problem. Wear a normal athletic supporter, over it wear the cup, and over the cup wear normal tighty whiteys. This holds the package very snug and secure. The only other thing I suggest looking out for is getting an erection while wearing a cup. Normally it may be no big deal, but with frenums it is something to avoid at all costs until they heal completely.
My new search is for genital scarification; African tribes do little dot scars in neat patterns on their bodies. I want it done on my penis...so far I haven't found anywhere to have it done. Any recommendations and research would be greatly appreciated if you could e-mail it to me. Otherwise, this is my experience and it has been a fantastic one! Good luck to anyone looking to venture down this road, its fun and no big deal.