I must say, I never thought I would go through with it. Neither did my friends. I wanted another piercing, but living with my parents, I was restricted as to what I got. I was thinking about my tongue, but my mother would have considered me "white trash". I would have gotten a couple more ear piercings or even my labret, but work prevented me from doing that, it looks too unprofessional for a waiter. So, it was my nipples or a genital piercing, and I wasn't too sure about my nipples being pierced at my weight, being 6'2 and 230 lbs (thats a little chubby). So, genital it was.
At A Glance Author Adam Contact T00LI30X@aol.com Artist Debbie Studio Body Creations Location Glendale/Phoenix, AZ I researched all types of genital piercings. The PA, the frenum, the apadravya, the ampallang, and more. Seeing as it was my first genital piercing, I decided to be a wimp and get my frenum pierced. I worked extra hard for better tips for two days afterwards. I was determined.
Then came the day. I had enough to cover any imagined cost. I went down to a piercing parlor that my friends recommended and sat patiently. I was fine until they told me it was a standard 10 ga. piercing. WHOA! That sounded a little big, but I said ok, I didn't want to turn back. They showed me the barbell and told me of the aftercare as the piercer set up. Seeing the barbell helped conquer my fear, it wasn't as big as I thought it was, but it was big enough to make my friends cringe when I told them!
I had several people tell me that having a male piercer was better. The more I thought about it, the more it made sense. A male piercer might be more careful, knowing that he could imagine the pain if done too rough. When I saw that a woman would be shoving that needle through me, I got really nervous. "Was she going to be careful?" I thought to myself. For my own sake, I was hoping so. But I wasn't going to wait another day for Jerry to pierce me. I was going to do it that day.
The moment of truth, I was led into the back room. I looked around at the doctor's office like environment and thought, "cool, at least its sanitary". The piercer, being a female (to add to my nervousness, I don't have the biggest) told me to drop my pants. "OK!" I thought and did so. I was nervous, and so was my little man, who was attempting to hide. I sat down on the table as she set me up for the piercing. She marked and remarked, and marked again until it seemed just right. She placed the clamp over the marks. I was then told that she was going to use a cork to receive the needle. I looked down at my scared member and thought "Here goes nothing." I saw the needle, all lubed up, and tried not to faint. She told me to breathe deep and tell her when I was ready. I took three deep breaths and said ok in a dazed state. Bam! The pain lasted long enough to shout "Oh F*ck" twice and it was done. I looked down and saw her screwing on the other bead.
There it was, my shiny new barbell. After it was all said and done, I felt it was a good experience. The pain only lasted about eight seconds and I haven't had any pain since then, except the first time I cleaned it, that stung a little. And as far as the male or female piercer, the more I think about it now, the more I realize that its a piercing that needs to be done quickly, and maybe not gently. I am glad that I did what I did, and I am more apt to the idea of getting more done, perhaps my frenum ladder or the ampallang. For the next 3 hours, I had an unstopable adrenaline rush. Imagine a server at Denny's bouncing off the walls and no tables to take care of. I got a few funny looks, until I explained what I did. Since I got it pierced, almost all of the ladies I brag to want to see my penis. I think thats pretty cool...whether they are looking at my piercing or my penis, its all good!
If you are reading this, just as I read other stories, I strongly suggest that if you are considering it, do it. Don't think twice. As I once read, "The pain is temporary, but the piercing is forever." That quote is all too true, like I said, it only lasted for about 8 seconds, and it was gone. All I can say is, just do it, after it heals, wait a little while. Let you sexual stamina build up, so you crave it! Your lady friend(s) will love you for it! I know mine does.