it seems quite silly really how i came to have my frenum pierced and as i know now no big deal having the piercing done but at the time it was a big deal a very big deal because i to be honest am scared whitless when it comes to needles.
At A Glance Author dfw Contact dfw@bme.anon Artist linda Studio aflecs palace Location manchester england It seems silly that i spent some of my time in the past being shot at for a living granted we where at war at the time [the falklands] but even when it came to the inoculations for serving abroad for some strange reason i gave the rest of the squadron a good laugh in fact they took bets on how long i would stay vertical.
But I ended up with a frenum piercing it started with my wife going on at me about changing her apearance new hair style and the like but she seemed to drone on and on about it then one morning she dropped the bomb shell i am going to get my hair changed and have a tattoo!!
Well after recovering from the point of expiring through choking on my coffee the row started me accusing her of trying to see me off for the insurance by killing me with shock.
and her accusing me of not caring about her appearance this went on for a few days untill i got sick of her going on about it and snapped again she said i think i will change my appearance and get a tattoo that was it last straw , breaking point,red mist time,
then i said it theres as much chance of you getting a tattoo as there is of me getting my manhood pierced!! and i recall that little voice in my head telling me your going to regrete that.
well this seemed to shut her up for a while actualy about three days i was on late shift normaly i would come home have a shower then some food but as soon as i got in up it popped she said do you remember our bet?.
i was not in the mood for this and just answered yeah what ever and went for a shower i had not been in the shower for more than a couple of seconds and she again asked me do you remember our bet well i tried to explain as best as i could that it was not a bet but how do you tell your wife you only said what you said to shut her up.
with out further comment she took her robe off and removed a piece of gauze from her shoulder to reveal a tattoo of a rabbit at this point that little voice came back to say i told you so!
her only comment was WELL!!
i was speachless she again said do you remember our bet now, all that came out of my mouth was a gush of unintelligible babble well i aint ever lost a bet or backed down from a chalenge yet.
over the next few days i was given little reminders and some tormenting untill she said dont worry i wont hold you to our bet but as i had never backed down i knew that this would cost me dearly if i did not do somthing about it.
and i dont mean just money so quietly i started to do a little reserch i did not want her to know just in case i did not do any thing about it well at the time i had a little access to the net and with this and telephone directorys i started to hunt around i had seen places in and around manchester but some looked quite tatty and dirty, seedy even.
I started to phone around to try and do some reserch each time explaining the bet i got little help untill i phoned the studio in aflecs palace i spoke to a man there and he said you need to speak to the piercer then my worst nightmare came true it was a woman my manhood was quite rapidly retracting in fear in fact i felt an extra lump in my throat .
as it turned out though it was the best person i could have spoken to she totally reassured me and began to explain what she could do what she would not do and how it was done even down to what the pro's and con's are in respect of jewellery etc..
i then explained about the problem i have with needles she told me not to worry i wont see it nor will i feel it then it was time to decide what piercing i was going to have and again she came to my rescue as i knew zip about them she explained each one and problems that i could encounter with each i decided to have my frenum done this was to cost me £35 about close to 50 dollars that seemed expensive but to be honest i had grown to like the idea and booked an appointment for the saturday as my wife would be working i turned up at the place and started to have some doubts the place looked a little tatty to say the least .
on entering i was met by the piercer she looked a little strange to say the least funny hair style loads of tats. and piercings but very plesent we again spoke at some length and she went through the whole procedure again.
well i thought i am here why not i paid my money and she lead me into what looked like a good doctors treatment room, bed/opperating type table stainless steel trolleys and the like.
she explained about the anaesthetic and said ok last chance to change your mind or do you have any more questions well i could not think of any and to be honest the idea had totally grown on me she applied this spray and my manhood started to get quite warm and burn slightly as she had explained it would i then went for a walk for 20 -25 mins like she said to so that the spray would have time to work.
on my return there was a little trolley next to the bed with a cover on it she asked if i any feeling in my penis i could not feel a thing and said so she said i need to check the placement so close your eyes as i need some thing from under the cover and the needle is under there that way you will not see it.
fine i thought and closed my eyes after about 30 seconds she said ok you can open them now and then stood in the corner of the room removing the rubber gloves i was a bit worried whats wrong she said nothings wrong do you like your piercing i looked down and it was done no problem at all,
she then again explained about health care and what to do and not do in respect of sex she said let it heal a little about 7-10 days should be ok.
i thanked her and she said the strangest of things and that was we will see each other again well i had it done now to wind the wife up i called in at her place of work on my way home just to tell her you aint won the bet the look on her face was worth the initial worry that i felt.
sex was out for 3 weeks untill it healed but almost a year on and the hole having been enlarged i now have a large choice of jewellry to wear my wife likes me to wear a 6 gauge barbell it gives her great pleasure.
i now understand what the piercer meant when she said she would see me again i am now considering what to have done next my wife is taking a keen intrest and her eyes lit up when i said i am considering further piercings.
i have been trying to convince her to have one done for me but up to now no joy .
perhaps whats below may help other people who are new and stumble across this site
1,do your research and do not just go to the first studio they can vary quite a lot.
2,do not turn up drunk as most reputeable studios will turn you away
3,if you are not talked through it chapter and verse by the piercer before starting walk away.
4,dont let the sight of needles put you off you dont need to see it and its a fact you dont feel it.
5, if you found this sight try the chat room any questions you have i feel sure will be answered .
at the present i do not have the equipment to send pixs.but perhaps i will have soon and when i get around to the next piercings i will be able to send them .
the last words are my wifes and she said its the best thing i have ever done for her