Prior to my 18th birthday i had only had 3 piercings....2 lobe and a septum.
For my birthday i wanted to add a new piercing. I live with my grandparents
who are very close-minded so my new piercing had to be one that wasn't
visible. I was considering dydoes but after i talked to some people at
infinite i decided that i should wait for those and go with my other choice,
my frenum.
May 20th was the day i decided to have my piercing done,i
wasnt nervous at all, well at least not until i arrived at infinite.
Everything was kinda rushed because i had to run around and get my birthday
money in order to get my piercing. After some run-around we went to infinite.
i spoke with Jon about what i wanted done and he made me fill out the paper
work and pay. We decided on a 10g. 5/8 barbell. Jon then took me into the
back and explained after care and the procedure. Now it was time for me to
pull down my drawz....JOn was really cool about everything so i didnt feel
embarassed or anything. He marked the entrance and exit hole and asked if it
looked ok to me i agreed and he put the clamps on. By now the reality of what
i was about to do had hit me and i became rather nervous.....and so did the
lil guy if ya know what i mean! Jon asked if i was ready and i said yes and
then...... OUCH and it was over. i admit i kinda yelped but it was a very
sharp pain! The strangest thing about this was that as soon as the needle was
in and out the pain was gone.... even inserting the jewelry was painless.The
only way i could describe the pain would be just a sharp pinch ... but in a
way it felt good. After he inserted the jewelry he asked me if i was pleased
with my new piercing. I was speechless, i honestly was much happier with it
then i thought i would be. The jewelry just looked great. I explained to Jon
that i was more then just happy about how it looked i was ecstatic, he seemed
very pleased to hear that. JON then went over the aftercare again and i left.
The shop was closing and i felt like an asshole for showing up so late to get
pierced. I also felt horrible about not having any money to give him for a
tip but his said it was cool and wished me a belated happy birthday. That
night i was soo happy with it, it really looked great. Sleeping was
uncomfortable but that was only the first night... due to being erect. The
healing of my frenum was super fast and easy i just used antibacterial soap
and did salt soaks.Except for the usual crusties i havent had any problems
with healing. I've had it for about 3 months now and have had sex with it
twice, it was rather uncomfortable, actually painful. The only concern i have
about my piercing is it migrating down the shaft, i know of someone who had
visible scars of his moving down from having sex with the piercing in. Since
having my frenum pierced i have returned to Jon and had my nipples done (
12g. captives) and yes i left a tip. I still have plans for the dydoes but
first i need to get money for filling in my dead sparrow tattoos. If the
healing of dydoes is anything like a frenum then i dont think they'll be a
problem but i've heard they have a higher rejection rate then frenums, but
from experiences i have read on bme the people who have them seem very
pleased with them.
So in conclusion I was and still am very pleased
with my piercing, the studio and piercer. I would defenitly tell anyone in
the philadelphia area to go to INFINITE if they want anything done, the staff
is really helpful and knowledgable.
There are two side-effects i have
from the piercing. masterbation can be painful if i'm not carefull and sex is
rather uncomfortable...for me. My girlfreind seemed to think it felt rather
nice. The idea of this piercing in some way being a chastity device never
really struck my before i had the piercing done. In all honesty i'm not upset
about this aspect of the piercing. In fact i think that this could be rather
beneficial to me. Not that sex is a bad thing i just think that at my age all
it's really gonna do is get me in trouble. Maybe my piercing will keep me
from making some mistakes, and make something meant to be special actually
special.
