Well, the most amazing things happened while you wait.
At A Glance Author JosefKrakow Contact JosefKrakow@bme.anon IAM JosefKrakow When A week ago Artist My buddy Josh Studio His Apt Studio Location NH I've had a 12ga curved barbell ring with a malachite ball lying around my house since I retired it from my left nipple. And for years I've been debating what to do with it.
Well, the other day it struck me that I've been anticipating a dydoe for years. Having a LOT of time on my hands courtesy of another school snow day, I took it upon myself to 'do the deed'. So i went on a quest.
Out to the barn I trudged, and started sorting through my steamer trunks and Rubbermaid in search of my college jewelry box. For there inside lay the treasure.
After about an hour of searching through textbooks and football programs and other memorabilia (including a 5 year old condom; unused), I found the box. So I looked inside and amongst the cavalcade of hemp necklaces, worry dolls a small pipe and an indian choker I found the curved barbell ring.
So over the road, down the pike through the snow and over the state line to my friend Josh's house I went. He has only been pierced by me and except for the retired nipple from college I have only been pierced by him. I, being the coward I am I had him do it. He always has the supplies including and old autoclave that his lab was throwing out just for being 4 years old. (The advantage of having a marine (as in ocean) microbiologist as a best friend.
I hadn't called and when I got to his apt door I realized he might not be in. I didn't have my cell phone with me so I took a chance and knocked. He was more than in, he was sky clad(unnecessary but fun info). So I told him what I wanted and where I wanted it. He not only consented but was very very happy he would finally get to do one on me. I think he was happy for other reasons tho.
We talked a while longer about how he was going to do it. I asked him about the last time he spore tested his autoclave and if i could see the paperwork confirming the sanitary condition of the machine. So we put in the supplies. The hemostat, piercing needle and my curved barbell to sterilized in the autoclave.
This would take about fifteen minutes but I asked for a half hour just to be safe.
while the machine was doing its thing we sat down and talked about the second aspect of the process. The Ritual. We decided to call the corners as usual and started discussing to which of the Deities of the Heavens and the Earth we would call to represent the pantheon. To do this we usually go to separate rooms and meditate individually for about 10 minutes and begin channel writing names of the gods and goddesses to invite. The we come back together and compare and the ones we have in common at the highest point on the list are the ones chosen to be both guider and benefactor. We chose Llyr and Freya.
So I got undressed and he prepared the room for our ritual. We both believe the decision to pierce, both 'play' and permanent, is a spiritual one. So we do a spiritual ritual while doing it. By this I mean we open before and close after the piercing(s) are done.
Once the spirit was affirmative and this proving not to be just a whim, we proceeded. He had me lie down on the floor while he knelt beside me. He put the bedadine solution and marked the spot. He asked me to confirm the spot. It is opposite my meatotomy at the top of the glans where i have a very large ridge. (He joked that my penis looked like a darth vader pez dispenser with the pseudo-glansectomy. I started that one on my own and the decided not to finish a quarter of the way through.) He then had me do "la masse" breathing while he did the pierce. It slid through really fast and was extremely enjoyable.
It was an awesome experience, even though I was erect for most of it. It was clean with very little blood and near painless. After it was done He ritually cleaned my body. We then finished the ritual with cakes and "ale" for us it was simple Kedem brand, its the best, grape juice and closed. We then snuggled on the couch and watched family feud and a few other things. Its amazing when to twigs(he's 6' and 125, and I'm 5'5 and 110 during a hurricane, snuggle.
I am really happy and hope to get a frenum very soon. But I'll wait till my new beautiful dydoe is healed first.