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2 dydoes and a frenum to start |
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I'm not really sure what started me thinking about getting a genital piercing, especially since I've never had anything pierced, perhaps it was my girlfriend's desire to get a tongue piercing that did it. I started looking around on the net and ended up at BME. After looking at all the different types of piercings I decided a frenum would be the easiest to start with. I told my girlfriend what I wanted to do and she thought I was crazy. We broke up the next week (not because of the piercing idea) and so I thought I might as well go all out. I talked with a close friend of mine and told her my idea, she encouraged me to do it and knew some people at Skin Illustrations, which turned out to be a good, clean shop, so she suggested I go there. I made an appointment and decided that I'd do not only a frenum, but two dydoes as well.The day arrived and I picked up my friend. I was so nervous and glad to have a friend with me. After filling out the paper work and paying, Lance, the piercer, led me back to a cubicle. He filled me in on all the after care information, what I could and could not do with my piercings and how long I'd have to wait to have sex and all of the other things I needed to know. After doing my ear, which I ended up removing later because it wasn't quite me, he proceeded to the ones I was really excited about. I got half undressed and lay back on the table, not sure of what I'd gotten myself into. First up was the frenum He placed clamps on, which were ok, no pain there and while it hurt when the needle went through, it wasn't horrible, more of a stinging sensation. I looked down and loved what I saw. There's nothing like a barbell through the skin of your cock. My friend just stood there in the corner watching quietly.
The dydoes were a different story though. After talking with Lance, I decided on a shorter barbell than he had first chosen. It was a risk as it could have been painful on erection, but it turned out to be a good decision. I decided where exactly on the head of my cock I wanted them and watching carefully, Lance made the marks and swabbed the areas down. The first one hurt like hell; excruciating pain for about 2-3 seconds when the needle went through, but it was followed by the most glorious rush I've experienced. There was a little bleeding, but not much. Lance slipped the barbell through with a little more accompanying pain and tightened it. The second dydoe was a problem though. He put the needle through and then the barbell, and when he and I looked at it, we both agreed that it was to shallow on the exit. He asked if I wanted to try another day, or do it again right then. I figured what the hell...it hurts, but I'd rather do it all at once, so I said to go for it. He was pretty pissed that he'd screwed up the first one, but he was good overall, and very relaxed, which helped me a lot. Having my friend with me also helped as she was really supportive. He took the barbell out, which hurt, and let me rest a bit before trying again. I was getting hot by this point, my body was getting to the point that it couldn't take much more. I had some sports drink and rested for a bit then once I felt back to normal I told him I was ready to try again. The second time through with the needle was painful, but the rush again was incredible. After the barbell was in place I looked again, and I was (and still am) very pleased with the results. So now I have a frenum barbell about 1/3 the way down my cock, and two dydoes on the top evenly spaced to each side. I went home and spent the day doing nothing important....I think I deserved a little rest.
I was really sore for the first day, but that faded pretty quickly. There was some bruising around the one dydoe that had to be redone, but nothing horrible. I bled quite a bit from the dydoes for the next several days, especially whenever I got an erection. It's been a little under a week now, and the bleeding has completely stopped, and the soreness is almost completely gone as well. I'll have to wait a while before trying them out with someone, but I can wait....they feel incredible already and their very sexy to look at. Now I just have to find someone willing to test them out with me...
So, if you're considering a dydoe or frenum, go for it! There will be pain, but it's completely worth it. I'm even thinking that I may get a frenum ladder sometime. I'd recommend two dydoes evenly spaced....the look is great and the feel is wonderful.