Hey everyone, I am going to post about how I got an apadravya and at age 14. But first a little background on my life with body mods and such.
At A Glance Author anonymous Contact Perfect-ps@hotmail.com When A week ago Artist Myself Studio Bath Room Location My house Background: I have always wanted piercing, I don't know why, it was just something that I felt I needed, you know. I got my ear pierced, and then my body mods stopped, my parents are so strict about piercing, I think it is some kind of appearance thing. Anyways I pierced my cartilage behind their backs, then I took it out, and they found out... so after that, I was finished. So when did I start thinking about genital piercing you may be thinking, about grade six or seven, when I would google image search "penis piercing" and see what came up.
I always told myself "When I tern 18 I am getting one!" but that seemed like such a long time to wait. So then DIY came up, and I almost felt like I would be capable, but I was very naïve at that time. Now I know a lot about almost all male genital piercing, because I have wanted to get; a guiche, scrotum, hafadas, dydoes, ampallang, and apadravya. So time went on, I did a guiche, but took it out. I mainly took it out because I wanted the ring for a PA, which I have successfully done and healed.
So why the apadravya? I guess because I already had a PA and was tired of it, I needed a new piercing, and I could do nothing on my face or body. For the longest time, I wanted to get an ampallang, but I don't like how it would look when flaccid [plus, the apadravya gives more stimulation during sex]
Ok so now with the experience. I never really knew what pain in the head of the penis feels like, and wanted to experience little of this. So I went to the kitchen and got a glass of ice water. I also gathered some other supplies I would need for it, a needle, Kleenex, the barbell, sea salt, rubbing alcohol, a cork, and some soap. So no I am all set, but I decided to take a shower before to make it easier so that the skin is looser from warm water. In the shower I kept thinking how I was going to go about this piercing. And I knew that I was going to go from the inside of my urethra out [from inside my PA].
So after the shower I dried the area, and put it in ice water for 5 minutes. After the 5 minutes, then I took it out and carefully inserted the needle inside my PA hole. After that then I looked from the side view to make sure that it is going to be perfectly straight [my Pa wasn't done as far back as most, so it didn't need to be on a slant]. So now I kept thinking to myself "I cant believe I am about to do to" and I aliened the cork at the top of my penis. And then I pushed, and waited because the pain wasn't as bad as I thought it was going to be, but it still hurt. Then I pushed and waited, and one more time pushed and waited. I didn't even realise that the needle was through my penis, because just the feeling that I had told me it was only through my urethra.
I removed the cork to see the that top of the pin was just sticking out of the skin. I was happy to be honest, but me being myself I didn't stick the pin all the way out in order to stretch the skin enough to get the barbell in the hole. So it appeared as if I had enough room for the barbell to fit, but I didn't. I pulled the pin out to insert the barbell, and man did it bleed. It bleed a lot actually, to the point where the blood was coming out of all the holes on my penis [PA, urethra, and the new hole I just made]. So I wiped the blood off, and then it kept bleeding, but I inserted the barbell fully and got the ball on. Then after I sat there thinking "I did it". When I took a good look at it, I realised that it wasn't straight, wasn't perfectly center. This brought me down, I was so upset that this didn't turn out right. But I did a little research on the internet, and I found out that to fix a crooked piercing, to tape it with medical tape ever night.
So I started to tape it, and the more that I looked at it, the more that it started to look straighter. Until recently I found out the right now it only looks off center because my PA was done on the right side of the bottom of my penis. So right now it looks great, it is fully stretched because it is now perfectly center.
To clean it, I use sea salt soaks in warm water, and I almost always take the ball off and soak that. I find that stuff gets stuck to it. When I was stretching it I found out that it would often get blood on the ball, and that was very annoying, but it stopped. Pain wise, it was a good piercing because It didn't hurt that much, and the initial pain and swelling went away in about three days. Right now I can do anything with it that I would normally do. Urinating did not hurt at all when I got this, and still doesn't, a lot of people say that it really hurt to go to the washroom after, well it doesn't. Plus it doesn't divert urine in any way, so that is a good thing.
I hope that my experience has helped you to consider getting such a piercing, but I do want to say that it really isn't smart to do it yourself. I could have seriously messed up my penis, but that was a risk I suppose I was willing to take. Also I did a lot of research on this, and knew a lot about the anatomy of the area. Well thank you for reading my story. Cheers.