To start off with my experience, I should describe myself. I am a 35 year old attorney and my wife is a 2nd grade teacher. We are people who who have always maintained a mainstream appearance. My wife and I appear to be very "straight laced" and basically what appears to be "normal." However, I think that anyone who by society's definition appears to be "normal" is actually abnormal. Due to my profession, visible modifications are not always a good thing to have. Unfortunately sometimes society judges people by appearance. Unfortunate YES, reality YES! I work in a large firm where visible modifications would jeopardize my career. Therefore, I am forced to hide my modifications from the rest of the world.
At A Glance Author anonymous When It just happened Artist Michelle Studio Pleasure & Pain Location Ontario, CA One year ago my wife decided to go out and get her VCH pierced. I had told her that it was her body and that I would support whatever decision she had made. Really was not that excited about it, but it did spark my curiosity. At this point in time, all that I had done was my ear, which I got when I was around 20 and since retired. I really was not into piercings, but I was kind of intrigued by them.
Well, my wife and I went down and got her VCH done. I was amazed and extremely turned on by her new hardware. The look of it actually drove me nuts. All that I wanted to do was to try out my new toy. However, my wife wouldn't let me. She said that I had to wait the required amount of time before we could do anything. Also, after she got her piercing, she asked me to get a PA. I was not really excited about having a needle shoved through my penis, but I decided to keep an open mind. After the first time I had sex with my wife and her piercing, I was in love. It added so much to our sex life. Just that little addition of jewelry made a HUGE improvement (not that it was ever bad before). I started thinking of my wife's request and so I mowed it over for about a month. A month later, I was in the chair trusting my member to someone I did not even know. My wife by my side and a needle through my dick. All in all it was a good experience and actually brought my wife and I closer together. Funny how a little pain brings you closer together.
Fast forward to 3/3/05. My wife and I both decided that for our anniversary that we would both get pierced. We both like the effects that our piercings have on each other. I am in love with hers and she is in love with mine. Sex has become so much better since we both were pierced. She was adding a HCH piercing and I was going to convert my PA into an Apadravya. I went first while my wife watched me get all cleaned up and marked.
First our piercer, Michelle, cleaned the head of my penis. She then marked the top hole with a toothpick dipped in some sort of ink. After the toothpick marking were done my wife and I told her to proceed with the piercing. She then placed the clamps on the head of my penis and aligned the dots with the original hole of my PA. She was going to use the existing PA hole and go through the rest of the way. After the holes were lined up and clamped, she got out the needle. She was going to pierce me at 12ga and instantly stretch it up to 10ga. Well, when she pierced, it hurt! It hurt a lot! Much worse than my PA. But, like my PA, it only lasted a short time. The pain was over in 10 seconds. I look down and she already had the needle out and was screwing the ball on the bottom. After that, she cleaned up the little bit of blood and told me that I could put my pants back on.
I looked at my wife and she was smiling from ear to ear. I jumped off of the table and she jumped on and got her piercing. After that, we tipped out piercer and left. It has been 6 hours since we both have gotten pierced. We are walking around our house naked right now just looking at each other's piercings. We know that we can't "play" with them for a while, but a little looking didn't kill anyone. I have not had any pain or discomfort since I have left the facility and I would highly recommend this piercing to anyone who is thinking about it. The pain hurts, but only for a minute and is well worth it after that!