my first piercing... and it was glorious
At A Glance
Author Jeff
Contact Jeff@bme.anon
When Three months ago
Artist Rob Johnston
Studio Moving Pictures Studio
Location Wooster, Ohio
So about a four months ago now, I was playing with the notion that of piercing my dick. Most people ask me, "Why in god's name did you never think of such an idea"! And you know what? To this day I am still not sure what made me think I wanted to pierce my dick, but whatever. Once the idea popped into my head I just couldn't stop thinking about it. Then it occurred to me that a dick piercing would be the perfect gift for my girlfriend! So I tossed my idea out to some of my friends, it was greeted with less than enthusiastic response, a lot of "oooooohhh", "oouch, dude", and "whyyy man?" s before they eventually convinced themselves that I couldn't be serious. This only fueled my desire for a whole in my cock.

After deciding that I was going to get my cock pierced there were only two things standing in my way, convincing my girlfriend that she would love it, and figuring out what I wanted. Convincing Emily that she would only benefit from my pierced dick was a synch, hehehehe, I had to now find the piercing that best described my personality. I have never, ever once thought about getting my dick pierced, I never even thought about getting anything pierced before. I grew up in a "Marines" house my dad was a Marine and my older brother is currently stationed in the Marine base at Okinawa, Japan. So piercing, tattoos, and such were never allowed, in fact our dad told us that if we ever came home with a piercing, he would rip it out on sight! I am currently in college so I wasn't too worried about the ripping of the dick threat, not only that but showing off my dick to my dad doesn't strike me as a good time. I was at home enjoying fall break when I decided to get poked, and I k now right where to go for any piercing inquiries, Moving Pictures Studio.

I walked into Moving Pictures bright and early Monday morning, and I was scared out of my mind from just entering. I was done some crazy things in my life but for some reason going into a piercing studio and seeing all the hard-asses with their 4 gauge earrings, body-length tattoos, and "what the hell are you doing here" looks intimidated me. As I shyly approached the counter and asked the scary man if they did, "ummm, any ...like...genital piercing"? He give me a whatever fucker look and pulled out a three-ring binder full of piercing. Rob showed me all the styles of genital piecing, and I the minute I saw the apadravya I was sold. It and the ampallang were totally the coolest dick piercings. Rob, whom I first was scared of, was awesome and made me feel completely comfortable. He went over some of the pros and cons or dick piercing like having metal in your cock doesn't help your chances of getting head, and most girls really like sex with a pierced dick (not to mention th e man attached to it). He told me that the piercing would not yield an earth shattering orgasm for her, but there would be an improvement. He told me to talk it over one more time with my girlfriend and come back then or if I was ready.

That next day, after talking once more with Emily, I walked in happy, nervous, confident, but prepared to run out of the studio at anytime. I can't really describe exactly how I felt that day but I knew I wanted my Apa. I found Rob, gave him the thumb ups, and the process began. I saw the 14-gauge bar, we paid for the piercing, and he started telling me how the piercing would proceed. We went into the curtained booth, and me told me that there would be two pushes. He would start at the bottom of the penis push through the flesh and into the urethra. Then he would stop of a second or two and line-up the needle and push again through the top of the head...ouch, but I said let's do it. Rob did all the cleaning necessary for piercing, and I was scared shitless! He marked the position where the needle would go and I started shaking with fear, and anticipation. He asked me if I had eaten anything that day, "no" I replied. "Should I have"? He told me that some people pass ou t from the pain, "this one's a stinger", I think he said. I wasn't worried about all that, I have never passed out, I never even been to the hospital. Rob had been piercing for a while and I could tell he was uber confident in his work, so he went freestyle. He asked me, "Are you sure about this"? I said sure, and he bent over me with a needle in one hand and my dick in the other and said, "here I go..." I was like, "WAITTT!! You gotta give me a few second to collect myself before we do this". Rob told me that some guys bite their wallet during the piercing, which proved to be a great idea. So scared almost to death, confused on why I was even there, sorta laughing at what was about to happen, and finally ready I said "alright". He bent over and said ok, and with my nasty salty leather wallet in my mouth, it happened.

Holy mother of fucking god! It was the sickest pain I have ever endured. If I hadn't been biting through my wallet, I would have been screaming like a bitch on a rollercoaster. I suppose that even with the wallet in my mouth I was still making a lot of noise and probably turned a few heads. If you are thinking of getting an Apa, and you don't like massive amounts of pain...suck it up because it's only a few seconds of extreme pain and totally worth it. It's a different experience for everyone but I think that no matter how tough or pussy you are the piercing is definitely worth it.

After the piercing I experienced little pain other than soreness, I was uber uber anal about cleaning and penis maintenance. I suggest any newbie's to the same, it really helps the healing process, and don't forget the lotion to keep your dick from getting chapped. Once the piercing was over, I didn't even bleed and had almost no post-poke bleeding. Only the first night after the piercing did I bleed. I guess I had to good of a dream, and woke up to my hard dick gushing blood, but outside of that I had very little blood loss.

It's been almost four months and I really like my Apa. My girlfriend at first didn't like it but since it was condom sex she didn't get the full feeling, also the 14 gauge I have been told by other piercing artists that it is too small for good, painless sex for everyone. So after a few weeks of trying sex with the 14 gauge we decided to take it out during sex. Although I must say, that before the Apa it would take her a long time to come, and after a few turns on the Apa she starting coming well before I did. I remember a few times she would come, kiss me, hug me, then roll over and fall asleep leaving me with my dick in my hand. I am going to get either a 12 or 10 gauge bar soon and we will try sex with a bigger bar and beads. It makes sense that the bigger bar would be better for both of us, since the smaller bar is more likely to rip through me "the cheese wire effect", as it is called, and the bigger bead on the ends of the bar are less likely to yield the "diggin g" effect my girlfriend complained about. If you don't believe this, I'm a physics major and I would like to see your reasoning behind your hypothesis. So the moral of the story is, don't try to have sex with a 14-gauge bar! Along with that bit of advice, I go to school in North Carolina and ultimate frisbee is huge down here. To make a long story short, don't dive for the disc when you are still healing from an Apa, you can imagine the out come... pain, and lots of it. Also don't play frisbee in jeans with an Apa, the jeans have tendency to unscrew the beads and fall out while playing, this results in an embarrassing time explaining to your teammates what they are on the ground looking for, and why you have a bar in your dick.

Apas are sweet and I really like mine, and I am not one of those guys who treasure their penis over their own life. I think that an Apa or the ampallang are just fucking sweet, they are something that makes a person different. They are good for the lovin, a good means of diversity and just fun to have. Whenever I think about the bar in my dick I can't help but laugh. It's an awesome feeling to have what most think is the ultimate pain or the end all human torture and know that you are soooo much cooler than they ever could be. Hahaha

Thanks for reading,

Jeff


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