My Husband's Hypospadial Apadravya

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It has been my habit to take my husband twice a year for a urological examination. He is a healthy, strong, virile man with a perfectly normal body and an unusually high libido. Our marital life has been quite intense, and often I have had the pleasure of sharing him with my girl-friends during those times when my own sexual drive is does not match his. What has often been the most exciting aspect of our sharing is the thrill of discovery of my girl-friends when they first discover that he has a severely marked case of hypospadia. His penis is long and much wider than normal, but curves down very markedly when erect.

(For the uninitiated, this is the case where the urethral opening is not at the tip of the penis, but rather half-way along its length, in such a manner as to make the flow of urine and ejaculate stream down towards the feet as opposed to forward, away from the body. In addition, this incomplete formation of the penis causes a downward curvature, whose radius can vary among males so affected.)

For our anniversary, I decided to give him as a gift an apadravya. After careful research and countless visits, we settled on a place which had demonstrated experience in this kind of procedure, as evidenced by the pictures and testimonials they showed us. Phone calls were made to all their clients, and all expressed their satisfaction with the results obtained. Together, my husband and I studied the alternatives, and made countless sketches of our preferences. It was my golfing partner which came up with the most creative suggestion, and the one for which we finally opted. She suggested a thin but solid barbell to be inserted on the underside of his penis, about half-way down, where his urethra emerges. The barbell would then be pierced through the length of the rest of the penis, and emerge at the tip where the opening of the urethra is normally located for other men.

It took a lot of courage from my husband to acquiesce to this procedure, for which I greatly admire him! We went to the piercing parlor and explained our desire. She listened intently, made lots of notes, and finally came up with the jewelry that would match our intentions. My husband braved the entire procedure admirably. I know it must have hurt a lot, really a lot, judging by his grimaces, but quite fortunately the piercing lady was an expert, and in a very short time it was over.

The healing period was very long, over four months, during which time I personally took it upon myself to do all the washing, cleaning, and caring, gently scrubbing the crusts that would form. The lady at the piercing parlor gave us a long list of DO's and DON'T's, which we followed very attentively throughout the entire healing period. Just to be on the safe side, I did take him for a urological examination once a month, to be on the safe side that no infection was developing. All came out very, very well, with no complications whatsoever!

It has been a year now. I cannot begin to describe the joy this has brought us! First, of course, is the arousal it gives me to see him, so handsome and masculine, with the shiny end of the barbell at the tip of his penis. Knowing that hidden deep in his penis is the rest of it, emerging at the bottom, away from my eyes unless I raise his penis, is very exciting! My girl-friends come over to see it as well, and he has become quite popular among them. However, and here is the best part, given his pronounced downward curvature of his penis, whenever he gets an erection, we find a very exciting situation developing. The curvature is fighting with the internal part of the barbell: the erection wants to curve down, whereas the barbell, being rigid, fights back, trying to keep the penis straight. He often tells me how unbearably exciting the sensation is, and how fully aware he is at all times of the battle between the two!

During the four months of healing, of course, we did not have intercourse, nor provided him with any other form of sexual relief. We are now making up for lost time. The first few times, he became flaccid immediately upon entering me, since the sensation of the barbell attempting to straighten out his normally very curved erection was too strange for him to bear. With patience (lots of it) and gently love (even more), I have brought him back to his state of virility.

After we had resumed our normal sex life, I invited my girl-friend who had suggested the idea to come over for dinner. After dinner, she too tried him. She told us that it was the most incredible experience she had ever had.