My way to my apadravya

At A Glance Author taurus borealis Artist my self Studio at home Location scandinavia

My way to my apadravya

I am a 44 year old, professional, high income man with 2 grown up children and 1 teen-ager. I have always had a very imaginative mind and a great appetite for life. What I will tell, all started 10 years ago with a picture in an erotic magazine - showing some excellent pictures by mr. Henry Ferguson, a London based piercer. The writer had undergone a nipple-piercing himself, and he was sharing the experience in great detail. You could feel his endorphins flow...

Another article in the same magazine was about piercing and tattooing in general, illustrated with an exquisite nipple ring in a gorgeous female breast, and describing male and female piercings, Kamasutra references and the female appreciation of their own nipple piercings as well as male piercings like apadravyas and ampallangs. Well.....

Soon after, I pierced my left nipple with a 20 ga syringe, to find out it was bearable. I did not insert any jewels, just play piercing. Every once in a while I repeated this, and got accustomed to the pain and the rush. Generally there was no bleeding, and never any infections. Finally I found a 1.6 mm ball closure ring in Denmark, and one night I went for it, and pierced the nipple with a leather sewing needle, (sterilized in a flame) It was of course troublesome to get the ring in, but I succeeded, and in a few weeks it healed. I was very proud, but it took me a while to gather courage enough to wear it openly - in fact my children saw it three years after the piercing.

As a regular swimmer I got several comments from my friends, generally «ouch....» and other remarks signaling distance. (although some of their children had piercings themselves - at least in eyebrows)

Later I play-pierced my scrotum, shaft, foreskin and frenum, - no big deal. The rings in scrotum worked, whereas the rings in the foreskin was a hassle and the ring s in the shaft slowly found their way out. However- the hole in the frenum was kept, and mad it possible to wear a beaded ring around the penis-head during intercourse. I recall that in India they sometimes used a sharpened wooden needle of hardwood. I made one and tried it. It works..

The Idea of PA never left - so I contacted a piercer to get advice, and was told how they did it. Some years earlier I had a presentation at a closed SM-meeting, where a man displayed his PA and described the agony he had survived. «My piercer» explained how they used a army size IV-needle with an outer plastic sheath. I went home and tested. It din not hurt, I inderted a silver ring, got a light inflammation an gave up. Half a year later I vent to the piercer again, to find out that he was replaced by a gorgeous she!. Somewhat turned on, but also intimidated, I decides to go forward. Up in the seat, pants down, ( «I hope I wont develop a ..») She explained how the procedure was, It would be over in a few seconds and nothing to worry about. She put a tube down the urethra, led the syringe in the tube.., I could feel the tip against the wall under the gland slightly to the left of the frenum.. «Take a deep breath and exhale», she says, and before I could register, it was done. Great. My mind could not drop the question whether she enjoyed her work? She noticed mye pierced frenum and asked for permission to cut it! No way!

Needless to say, sleeping together with a ball-closure ring was a thrill for both my wife and me.

This opened the way for my 1/3 x 3 inch PA-Wand that I found in Copenhagen. Great feeling.

But there was something missing - I could not forget the description of the impact the apadravya had on the G-spot. And I was kind of half way through it.

So, after another half year, a late night, I decided to go forward. Same procedure: A triangular leather needle, sharpened on marble by me. In through the PA-opening, aiming for a pre-marked point on the front side of glans. As soon as I felt the needle had penetrated the wall of the urethra and felt it was heading towards the right spot, I used a cork to receive the needle.

Yes, that hurts a lot, but taking it slowly, being very horny and with a couple of beers inside, I was able to fulfill. It is a fantastic relief when you feel the needle pass the skin surface!

All that was left was to insert previously bought 2 mm, 7/8 inch barbell - and that was it. It all healed in 5-6 weeks, but before long, my wife and I was ready for a careful test run. And yes: It is true: It is a thrill for both parties.

As for my regular swim-trim: I am not circumcised, so with a little caution, I can hide the barbell under the foreskin in the shower and the sauna. Honestly, I am not brave enough to show this piercing to my friends, recalling the comments that my nipple cause(d).

Taurus borealis

PS: I am later divorced, which means I have had the opportunity to let more women evaluate the apadravya. They all love it, and prefer that I keep it on during sex. And for me - it is great. I have no other piercing planned for the moment, probably a tongue piercing. Probably.

(I have also taken a look at my right testicle by the way. May be I will tell about that later ..?)